We are all busy people and this is a busy world. We are mothers, fathers, parents, sisters, brothers, cousins, grandchildren, professionals, friends, and so many other roles. We make time for the people and things that matter most to us and often at the expense of ourselves and our personal priorities. Now in an era where self-care is critical to your peace of mind, … [Read more...]
4 Reasons Husbands Need to Take Better Care of Themselves
I recently told my wife that I think I want to retire from being an adult! I must admit that sometimes the pressures of life can begin to weigh on you heavy. As a man, this idea of protecting and providing is a heavy load to carry and sometimes we feel that we can’t ever show any signs of wearing down. Trying to be the best at a job, the best at a business, the best in … [Read more...]
Being Mary Jane EP 401 Shows Women What NOT to Do if They Want Real Love
Being Mary Jane is back, and Mary Jane Paul is still the same broken, lonely and insecure woman she has always been. The show opens with Mary Jane pledging that she is no longer using her bed to audition men for a relationship. She is declaring a fresh start in every area, especially when it comes to matters of the heart. To achieve her goal, Mary Jane hired a high priced … [Read more...]
Add These 7 Major Ingredients to Your Marriage and Discover Your Own Recipe for Success
[tps_header]You’ve probably heard time and time again that marriage isn’t easy. As cliché as it sounds, it’s actually true. If it were easy, there would be far less divorce. People everywhere would be compelled to just stay together for life. But hard doesn’t mean happily ever after is impossible. And when something is hard, it also doesn’t mean that it can’t bring you joy … [Read more...]
Hey, Busy Moms, Here’s What Your Lack of Self-Care is Really Doing to Your Family
If you are a wife and a mother, chances are you regularly play on #teamtoomuch. You have 101 things to do, and it never seems like there are enough hours in the day to get it all done. It’s exhausting. And sadly, it gets more exhausting for so many of us during this time of the year. Cooking, cleaning, working, shopping—the to-do list never seems to end. And we can’t just … [Read more...]
The One Decision That Can Make You a Better Mom and Wife
As an adult, I look at my mother and wonder how she did it all. A woman who raised us with just a fraction of the resources I have access to (and I don’t just mean financially), how did she do it? But then I remember that although we turned out well, my mom is paying the price today for putting everyone’s needs in front of her own. Her struggles with depression and her … [Read more...]
Do You Need a Dating Detox?
I know this post isn’t for everyone because a lot of women are enjoying the status quo. But for those who aren’t, let’s talk. Ladies, some of you are DOING TOO MUCH when it comes to your relationships. I understand that you don’t want to be alone. I understand you want to spend time with a man and not your girlfriends. I understand it’s been a while since you’ve been on a … [Read more...]
Is It Your Spouse’s Fault That You Let Yourself Go?
After I had my son, I was tired. Show me a mom who doesn’t feel the same way after having a child, and I will show you a woman who is probably lying. Waking up at night to change or feed an infant, dealing with crying fits when you just can’t figure out what’s wrong—it’s all hard stuff. I’ll be honest and tell you that in those early months, looking cute and put together … [Read more...]
Call It Selfish or Call It Smart, but My Kids Are NOT My First Priority
I recently came across an Instagram post that said, “Of course my kids come before you! Heck my kids come before me.” Many people would agree with this, and there were a lot of likes and virtual hi-fives being slapped around. But I have to say I disagree with this statement. My kids are not my first priority and they don’t come before me. Here’s why: When I became a mom … [Read more...]
6 Ways to Make Your Husband Say “DAMN, I Love This Woman”
Two weeks ago, the ladies were clapping their hands, supporting the advice I gave in this article about telling the fellas how to STEP THEIR GAME UP. Well , you know it wouldn’t be me if I didn’t come back and give some tips to the ladies to help them pep up their romance game as well. Ladies, just like us men, you sometimes get way too comfortable as well. Sometimes, you … [Read more...]
5 Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Lose Yourself in Motherhood
I always wanted to be a mom. Since I was a child, I dreamed about nurturing another human being and helping them create a happy life. Recently, my 5-year-old son was sharing his dreams of being an astronaut, rock star, and soldier, when my 3-year-old daughter jumped in and said, “mommy, I am going to be a mommy and live in a rainbow house when I grow up.” She had the … [Read more...]
5 Lies You Tell Yourself That Can Unexpectedly Ruin Your Marriage
If we were all able to accept our realities, there is no question that we would live happier, healthier lives. No matter how painful the truth seems, people who are truly in tune with what’s going on in their lives have the best chance of living happy ones. Embrace your personal truths and your life will change for the better. When you are unable to be honest with yourself … [Read more...]
Reality Check: Being Mary Jane Gives Singles 7 Brutal Relationship Lessons
In this week’s episode of Being Mary Jane, aka #BMJRealityCheck, a conversation ensued between Mary Jane’s brother Patrick and his daughters's mother Tracy. After receiving news that she would be released from a halfway house, Tracy was ready to rekindle her relationship with Patrick based on the fact that Patrick stated that he loved her. Tracy interpreted that statement … [Read more...]
5 Critical Tips to Raising Respectful Kids
It never fails. Whenever I'm out and about with my kids, people are always commenting about how well-behaved and loving they are. While I like to think this is the norm, I'm told time and time again that it's not. Recently, I shared a Periscope broadcast on 10 easy tips for moms to recharge, reconnect and FLY (First Love Yourself). Tips eight and nine were all about setting … [Read more...]
5 Rejuvenating Things Every Wife Needs To Do Without Her Husband
I have always been that girl who needs a good deal of personal space. I don’t have commitment issues and I am perfectly capable of deep love; I just don’t want anyone—not even my husband—around me all the time. Sounds harsh? I promise I am a really nice person. Sometimes I just need to be alone so I can collect my thoughts. Not much has changed over the years. I mean, … [Read more...]