My parents met when they were both in the Air Force. They married when I was four and my older sister was seven. Looking at the wedding pictures, I remember being there, but for the longest time, I thought my dad was mine biologically. It wasn’t until I was older that I was told he was not. You see my dad adopted me and my sister after he married my mom, so I didn’t get a … [Read more...]
3 Things You Need in Your Marital Emergency Kit
It’s important to be prepared and have an emergency kit in the event of destructive weather, power outages and whatever else may cause you to be without power for a few days. But are you prepared for an emergency in your marriage? Do you have the necessary supplies in case of a financial setback, sickness or even infidelity? I’ve listed a few essentials to have in your marital … [Read more...]
3 Types of Weeds that Will Take Root and Harm Your Marriage
I like doing yard work, but the one thing I absolutely hate is weeds! They are ugly and their roots are strong. Once you pull them out, they leave ugly holes in your yard that have to be filled with soil. But weed pulling is necessary if you want a pretty yard. Did you know you also need to pull weeds in your marriage if you want it to thrive? Yes there are weeds in your … [Read more...]
How Compatible Are You? 5 Questions You Should Consider
Do you think the man or woman you are dating is the one? Do you need reassurance of their qualities as a potential mate? Keep in mind that you don’t have to have everything in common; my husband and I don’t like all of the same movies, music or food. It’s the differences that I think keep our relationship interesting and fun. I’ve listed some serious questions I think everyone … [Read more...]
7 Signs You Have a Grown and Sexy Marriage
I love to see couples that really enjoy each other. They seem so carefree and it’s like their marriage is very comfortable. They have that “grown and sexy” vibe about them. That makes me want my marriage to be grown and sexy too. I think we are getting there. We’ve been married 16 years and we have pretty much learned each other and are comfortable with each other. Issues … [Read more...]
5 New Wedding Trends; Ideas for the Modern Day Bride
I love all things weddings and want to share some fresh ideas that I’ve seen and some that I’ve thought of. Each year new trends for the ceremony, dress and reception are released, but I think showing your personality is always the best trend. If you are planning your wedding and you are looking for something “new” to go with the something “blue” I think these 5 new wedding … [Read more...]
How to Address the Top 3 Major Marriage Problems
Marriage has difficulties that can be overcome. Couples face different challenges depending on their personalities. Many marriages share the same common issues that, with the right attitude, can be eliminated. Let’s discuss the top three concerns affecting marriages, money, sex and communication. First money is a huge issue affecting marriage. The problem does not have to be … [Read more...]
4 Things to Wear and 4 Things NOT to Wear to a Wedding
Ladies, it’s that time of year for summer weddings and you may have a few to attend. Before you begin serial shopping for various outfits to wear to these impending nuptials, allow me to share some tips on what not to wear to a summer wedding. 1. An all white dress. Some say it is ok to do this, however, according to Martha Stewart Weddings, “If you do show up in white, … [Read more...]
5 Vow Renewal Ideas
Many couples choose to renew their vows for different reasons. Some never had a wedding; some didn’t have the type of wedding they wanted due to financial reasons. Other couples just want to reaffirm their love and commitment to each other. Whatever category you fall into, below are a few ideas I’ve compiled to help make your day awesome! 1. Renew your vows aboard a private … [Read more...]
Do Something Different – 5 Unique Anniversary Ideas
Do you have an approaching anniversary and want to celebrate in a different way? Are you bored with the same anniversary routine? Is this your first anniversary and you want it to be memorable? I have compiled a list of some unique ideas to make your anniversary unforgettable. [imagebrowser id=113] BMWK - If you cannot get a babysitter or you want to celebrate with your … [Read more...]
3 Do’s and 3 Don’ts of Dealing With Your Mother-in-Law
I’ve heard many women complaining about their mother-in laws and wanted to share some advice about how to deal with her. Women are not the only ones with mother-in-law issues; men also have monster-in-laws too. There are certain do’s and don’ts that can help you maintain your sanity when dealing with your spouse’s mother. Do respect her You don’t have to like her but you … [Read more...]
Four Ways Your Marriage is a Ministry
Ministry: The act of serving, ministration. I don’t know if you realize it, but you do serve in your marriage, therefore it is a ministry. You may ask yourself how your marriage is a ministry if you and/or your spouse are not ministers. You don’t have to be. The fact that your marriage is an act of service makes it a ministry. The definition clearly states that ministry is the … [Read more...]
Does Separation Lead to Divorce?
Sometimes couples cannot find resolutions to issues they have in marriage and decide to separate from each other. Many times, couples go as far as getting a legal separation which allows them to legally live apart while keeping the marriage in existence. I think a couple should try marriage counseling before someone moves out of the house. If after counseling a couple’s … [Read more...]
The Problem With Assumption?
Many times assumptions are made in marriage. You may assume your spouse may feel one way about an issue or even about you and the marriage. Those feelings may not always positive. Sometimes negative thoughts lead to negative feelings which lead to the wrong assumptions. Make sure your thoughts and feelings are positive. If you are not careful with your thoughts and feelings you … [Read more...]
What to Do When You are Not First in Your Spouse’s Life?
Recently on a talk show, there was a newlywed wife having issues with her husband’s relationship with his mother. Apparently, her husband spends endless hours on the phone with his mother who lives in another state. The wife described how he would not acknowledge her when he came in from work because he was on the phone with his mother. He would compare the wife’s cooking to … [Read more...]