Previously we discussed the 3 Things You Should Always Tell Your Woman. I felt it pointed out some essential things that many times get overlooked by a husband. Naturally I decided the time had come to do the same with the wives. This list may seem like common sense to some, but you may be surprised how many husbands are not getting enough of this in their marriage. Many times … [Read more...]
3 Things Some Women Need To Stop Doing Today!
Ladies, ladies, ladies! For years I have heard you speak of your desire to be the best woman you can be. I have listened to you express your frustrations on understanding what it is you need to do for yourselves to have better and more fulfilling relationships. Today I want to help you move in a better direction, so LISTEN UP! That’s right, I’m talking to you. There are some … [Read more...]
God Says They Are the One, Your Family Says They are Not
Dating and relationships can be tough at times. It isn't always easy navigating through all the nonsense and figuring who is truly best for you. There are so many factors to consider, but ultimately the most important factor is God. Getting his guidance on the matter is essential when you're trying to position yourself to receive what is best for you. However, it isn't always a … [Read more...]
Who Recovers Faster from Heartbreak – Men or Women?
Lately I have heard a lot of women say that men struggle more with moving on. You always see situations where the man just won't let go no matter how hard the woman tries to tell him it's over. It could be years since the breakup, and that man is still trying to get her back and make something happen. Of course, we see women struggle too ...but on the surface they seem to … [Read more...]
Love Didn’t Make You Do It, But Here is What Did
Letting that woman run all over you. Following that man to see where he has been going. Impregnating her or letting him get you pregnant even when they aren't aware of your intentions. The list goes on and on. Ask that person why they did it and many will utter the phrase "love makes you do crazy things". I'm sure you have heard it before. It doesn't matter how stupid or crazy … [Read more...]
3 Bachelor Party Myths
So you’re about to get married and we all know what time it is, Bachelor Party Time! You and your buddies have talked about this many times in advance. Some of your friends already have the whole thing mapped out for you. This is your “last hoorah” and they want you to take full advantage of it. Well, before you dive into the festivities, be aware of a few things. Things are … [Read more...]
Men Can Be “Too Independent” Too
A while back I wrote an article on my site titled “Independent Woman Syndrome” and it got a lot of attention. It spoke on women needing to learn how to balance their independence once in a relationship. Many agreed, and some took offense. At the end of the day I stand by it. You can refuse to understand or receive the message as it was intended, but it does not change the … [Read more...]
5 Ways to Bring Your “Sexy” Back
Sexy is a state of mind. That is the number one rule you must always remember when trying to raise your sex appeal. If you don't view yourself as sexy well how can you expect anyone else to. We can talk about all the things you can do on the surface, but understanding the deeper principles that play into your sex appeal will create much better and more consistent results. Yes, … [Read more...]
Deal with Cheating in Your Marriage; Don’t Just “Move Past It”
Marriage isn't easy and I'm sure many of you know that. It takes a lot of effort to maintain a happy home where both parties are truly getting what they need from each other. In many cases, this harmony between a couple is not being achieved which opens the door to many things such as cheating. The day you find out that your partner has cheated on you can be extremely difficult … [Read more...]
5 Things to Consider When He Lives with His Mother
Boys live with their mother and men have their own... but is this always the case? Society has placed a very negative stigma on adult men who still live with their mother/parents. Jokes have been made and many men have been shut down by women who disapprove of their living situation. Should it be so cut and dry? Are men who have yet to go out and get their own all losers? Here … [Read more...]
3 Things Mothers Overlook with Their Sons
Mothers are so important to our society. Women are natural born nurturers and can provide so much to the stability of a family and to their children. Some have the help of a husband or good co-parent. While others may be doing what they can on their own. Either way their impact can be very great on the direction a young boy takes into becoming a man. That is why I feel it is … [Read more...]
3 Questions You Need To Ask Yourself Before Getting Married
Marriage is a big step in a person's life. It shouldn't be taken lightly and we all should make sure we do our due diligence before moving forward into this great commitment. The goal going in has to be about creating a great and long lasting relationship. You need to be ready to embrace all that comes with this union and be prepared to put in the work necessary for positive … [Read more...]
Breaking the Misconception of the Black Men to Black Women Ratio
Recently on my facebook fan page I posted an article about "Side Chicks". Simply discussing some of the reasons women accept the role, and some reasons a man may choose to try and place her there. In the comments thread a woman attempted to validate the reason for being a "side chick" due to the ratio of black men to women being 20:1 as she claimed. This immediately caught … [Read more...]
3 Simple Rules to Giving Her the Romance She Desires
Time and time again I hear women raise the issue of a lack of romance in their relationship. They wish their man had it in him, or was at least willing to learn. Unfortunately a lot of men seem to be clueless as to how to speak to the hearts of their woman, and know how to truly make her feel special. So why do so many men struggle with being romantic? I believe it’s because … [Read more...]
3 Tips On How To Better Understand Your Partner
You hear it all the time, how men and women simply don't operate the same. Men are known to be creatures of logic, and women are seen to be driven more by emotion. Is this really the case? Are we really built differently? My answer is an emphatic YES! These differences do exist in most cases, and have contributed to the ongoing communication gap that plagues our … [Read more...]