Was the election a topic in your church this past Sunday? In several churches across the land, preachers decided to dedicate their sermons to the election. Understandably, many African American took the election of Donald J. Trump hard. Trump's campaign took on harsh racist undertones, he failed to quickly disavow white supremacist support, he spewed misogyny, encouraged … [Read more...]
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4 Types of People You Need on Your Team If You’re Going to Thrive and Survive Your Single Season
Over the weekend, I was blessed to visit Miami to co-host an event on purity and waiting 'til marriage with fellow blogger and minister Myrlande Desulme (iwaitedblog.com). It was a great event, but one of the things that stood out to me the most was the feedback. These ladies desired to have more gatherings and resources for women of God who are waiting and need … [Read more...]
Husbands: 3 Powerful Prayers to Cover Your Marriage from Spiritual Attack
There is nothing more beautiful than a husband praying over his wife. Lift her up before God each day, asking for God’s power, protection and peace. When a man covers his marriage in prayer, you know he is serious. Start here and then keep building upon your marriage with work and prayer. Every place you see a blank insert your wife’s name. Pray for her peace God, You … [Read more...]
Trying to Explain a Trump Presidency to Your Children? Here’s 7 Verses That Will Help
“You voted for Trump?!” That’s what a fourth grader said to me as she marched up to my desk yesterday. “No, I didn’t!” “Yes, you did. Tennessee voted for Trump. Now, he’s going to be President,” she said. I looked at the disgust/fear painted on her face and took a deep breath as I tried to explain the Electoral College. After two minutes, I succeeded in convincing her … [Read more...]
Wives: 3 Powerful Prayers to Cover Your Marriage from the Temptations Trying to Tear It Down
Prayer is a powerful tool in marriage. It is a way to put action to our faith. The three powerful prayers here are a launching pad to get you going. Every place you see a blank, insert your husband’s name. Pray that your husband has an intimate relationship with God Father, in the name of Jesus, I come before you today praying for my husband _______________. Let him be drawn … [Read more...]
7 of the Most Challenging Dating Issues Facing Christian Singles
As with all dating relationships, when two imperfect people come together, there are bound to be challenges. And Christian dating is no exception. I surveyed Christian women between the ages of 25 to 55 and asked them to list the challenges of Christian dating. Here are their top 7 answers: 1. Is this the One? This is a problem everyone faces. Most women and men have a desire … [Read more...]
10 Godly Ways (Plus Scriptures) to Resolve Conflict with Your Spouse
The truth is, we will have conflict in marriage. It’s normal. Conflict is a disagreement caused by varying opinions. No two people have the same opinion all the time, even if you are husband and wife. However, conflict can be healthy when you decide to stand together and wage war on the problem, not on each other. Here are 10 Godly ways to resolve conflict starting … [Read more...]
Dating As a Christian: Do You Have to Be Worldly to Be Dateable?
If you're a single Christian woman, chances are you've been taught that you should wait on God to send you a mate. According to this teaching, waiting looks like going to church, volunteering, serving, giving, reading your Bible and praying for God to send your husband to you. You may have also been taught to avoid being "worldly" by dressing modestly, avoiding places where … [Read more...]
Christians, Is Your Spirituality Enough to Conquer Your Dark and Troubled Past?
Dr. Buckingham, I am a 45-year-old recovering alcoholic and drug addict. I have lived a very rough life both in childhood and as an adult. I was physically abused by my father in childhood and was emotionally abused by my ex-wife. Life has not been easy for me, but I refuse to give up. I have become a very spiritual person and have learned the importance of prayer. I … [Read more...]
My Trials as a Distant and Overwhelmed Stepmom; and What Changed It All
The day God revealed to me his plans for my stepmom journey was the day my life took a much-needed turn! I remember standing in my light blue dining room and staring out the window with tears rolling down my face as I told God… "I am so tired." I was tired of feeling like I wasn’t being the best mom to my biological children. I was tired of the pressure to be mommy to my … [Read more...]
How to Guide Your Children into a Lifelong Relationship with God
Most parents want to pass along their faith and values to their children. But it’s difficult with so many negative influences and images that flood our screens. In fact, a study conducted by the Pew Research Center last year found that millennials are walking away from Christianity in record numbers. This statistic worries me. I'm worried because my husband and I plan to … [Read more...]
Singles: These 3 Things Are Paramount in Preparing Yourself for Your God-Given Spouse
We all say we are in search of real love. Many of us are praying for that real love, standing in faith that God will deliver a real love into our lives. However, if that kind of love came to you tomorrow, would you be ready to receive and maintain it? I thought about it. If I had to answer my own question, I'd honestly say no. As much as I’d like to have my real, true love … [Read more...]
7 Powerful Scriptures that Every Husband Should Read
When you're looking for guidance in life, the Bible is always a great place to start. And it's also a good place for men who are looking for marital direction. Scriptures are filled with positive words of encouragement for husbands. They will help to keep you on track, set a foundation for your marriage and give you a target to set reachable goals. There are several great … [Read more...]
Unhealed Wounds Still Causing Trouble? Here Are 4 Reasons How
It is impossible to go through life and not be emotionally wounded by something. When your physical body hurts, you seek medical attention. When your emotional heart is wounded, it also requires attention. Sayings like "get over it," "move on" and "things will get better with time" are not helpful when your spirit has been damaged. Healing is a process. You have to take the … [Read more...]
Singles, Before You Give Up on Getting Married, Read This
“I know You can do all things; no plan of Yours can be thwarted.” Job 42:1 “If I don’t get married by age X, I’m just not going to get married.” Have you ever said this yourself? I understand, it’s challenging to wait for the right person to come into your life, especially when you've past the ideal age you wanted to marry. You've read the statistics about the ideal time to … [Read more...]