As I reflect on my relationship (which I have been in now for over 16 years, more than a 1/3 of my life), I am so grateful for the fact that it doesn’t feel that long. In fact, the longer we're in it, the better it gets. And as I take a step back to reflect, there are definitely some intentional things that we did that have kept us both happy, fulfilled, and feeling like the … [Read more...]
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Book Your BMWK Marriage Cruise Cabin for Just $50 Per Person Thru Wednesday
We want to get you on this cruise, with your spouse, to change your life! In order to do this we've made this year's cruise more affordable. The 2016 cruise is roughly $500 less per couple than last year's cruise but the deposit to hold your cabin was a bit more. Well.... we just got word that until C.O.B. (Close of Business) Wednesday, September 30th you can reserve your … [Read more...]
5 Ways to Have Daily Foreplay
Women often share with me they need their men to be more conscious of them throughout the day, which would lead to the intimacy carrying on into the night. As men, we could do some things better that would keep her fire lit. We know that we have to deal with the kids, work, taking care of home, etc., but it’s our job as men to remind her just how beautiful and important she … [Read more...]
Marriage Works! & Marriage Pressure Points Valentines Weekend Marriage Retreat
Marriage Works! and Marriage Pressure Points are hosting a Valentines Weekend marriage retreat at just outside Atlanta, GA. The retreat will be February 13-15, 2015 at the beautiful Lake Lanier Island Retreat. The weekend will be a perfect time for couples to break away from the pressures of everyday life, and spend time reconnecting with one another. Couples from around the … [Read more...]
Ultimate Date Night: Join Us to Celebrate BMWK’s 7th Anniversary Nov. 29th in ATLANTA with Kindred the Family Soul
Can you believe we started this website back in 2007? It's BlackandMarriedWithKids.com's 7th Anniversary and we want for you to celebrate it with us, by seeing our favorite group, in ATLANTA! Join us at 9PM Saturday, November 29th at Center Stage Theater as we celebrate at the Kindred the Family Soul concert. We're giving away tickets to 3 couples and we have discount … [Read more...]
ATLANTA: Still Standing Marriage Enrichment Weekend
On the weekend of Nov. 14th-16th The GACC is hosting the Still Standing Marriage Enrichment Weekend. This is a great opportunity for couples from around the state of Georgia to connect, grow and learn how to stand the test of time. The event which spans from Friday evening through Sunday morning is a great mixture of learning, fun and worship for you and your spouse. On … [Read more...]
4 Ways to Keep Date Night Fresh and Alive
It is often said to make time for date night within your marriage. Go out and spend some alone time with each other. I totally agree. I encourage you to get alone time with your spouse. Hire a baby sitter or pack the kids up and take them to grandma’s house for the afternoon. Even with date night, keep it fresh. Think of things to do that you have never done before. If you … [Read more...]
How to Plan a Valentine’s Day Staycation!
The fun and fabulous day to celebrate your love with candy, stuffed animals, balloons and cards is fast-approaching. If you can’t surprise your sweetheart for Valentine's Day with a getaway to a beautiful Caribbean island ,we can help you plan a fabulous staycation in your hometown. To pull this off, the kids are going to have to spend the night at their God parents’ … [Read more...]
Confession…I Can’t Wobble
I get nervous at weddings, parties, clubs and other social gatherings where there might be music or dancing involved. Not on every song...but when certain songs are played I get a bit anxious. You might be asking yourself why a middle aged Black woman like myself would feel insecure about being in a situation such as this, but my fears are valid. You see...I don't know how to … [Read more...]
Atlanta: Box Tops for Education Events Takeover The City
If you're in Atlanta or the surrounding areas then you'll want to make sure you attend these great events that celebrate education in our community. Check out the flyers on this page and the next to find out who'll be in attendance and what you need to do in order to be there. Make sure you take your kids with you to the Box Tops Bash on Saturday. This looks like fun! … [Read more...]
6 Date Night Ideas for Enjoying Time with Other Couples
I absolutely love the date nights my husband and I share. We know spending quality time with one another benefits the whole family. In addition to our time alone, we also enjoy the company of other couples in our circle. There is something about being surrounded by other couples who are also in love. My husband and I are truly blessed to be amongst other great marriages and … [Read more...]
How Increasing Intimacy Can Help Your Love Life
Many couples come in to see me to discuss the difficulties they are having in their sex life. Most of them explain that at the onset of their relationship sex was great, but as the relationship went on it began to become less frequent and often less intimate. These couples are often surprised about where we begin in addressing this issue, because we don't start talking about … [Read more...]
Do You Give Your Spouse Chores?
My husband and I try to run our house like a well oiled machine. We believe that all of our children (regardless of age) have a part in maintaining the house. And if they do their part, then everyone's life is much easier. To help make everyone accountable, we've implemented a chore checklist for everyone from the smallest child (two years old) to the oldest child (twelve … [Read more...]
VIDEO: RunWifeyRun Talks Black Girls Run!
This week we had the opportunity to catch up with one of our good friends Lorraine Robertson aka AskWifey aka RunWifeyRun! We talked about Lorraine's motivation for running and the upcoming Black Girls Run Inaugural Race to End Hunger. The race takes place this Sunday, September 16th in Atlanta, Georgia. Lamar and I will be running and we hope that you've … [Read more...]
African Ancestry Family Reunion Comes to Atlanta on 9/15
Do you know where you're from? I mean where you really are from, not just Chicago or Mississippi. Earlier this year Ronnie and I had the privilege of having our DNA traced by African Ancestry. Not only were they able to trace our lineage back to the continent of Africa, but they were able to make a match with the countries and tribes of our origin. I found out that I shared … [Read more...]