By Chandra Sparks Splond Have you ever had one of those days where you feel you are lacking as a parent? Maybe the baby won’t stop crying and you can’t figure out why or you’re trying to have a conversation you never imagined having with your tween or you’re telling your teen she needs to stay in school, knowing you never finished your degree. Some days it would be easier … [Read more...]
15 Things Every Couple Needs to Know about Finding Lasting Love
Dr. Gary Chapman has unlocked the secrets to the language of love that has transformed the way millions think about love. Dr. Chapman's book, The 5 Love Languages, has been on the NY times best sellers list over 283 times and has saved countless marriages over the last 20 years. Knowing your love language can transform every relationship in your life. The Five Love … [Read more...]
5 Books To Repair & Strengthen Your Marriage
As promised on last night's weekly Twitter #Marriagechat (every Wednesday at 9PM EST) over the next few days we're going to provide you with some resources that will repair and strengthen your marriage. We're starting off the series by sharing some of our favorite marriage books. BOOKS: The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman Description: Marriage should be based on … [Read more...]
VIDEO: Gary Chapman Shares “Things I Wish I’d Known Before We Got Married” PT I
In this clip best-selling author Gary Chapman answers the question: "What do most people think they know about marriage, but have no idea?" His current book, "Things I Wish I'd Known Before We Got Married" is an excellent resource. You can get more info on the book here. BMWK family, let us know what you think about this video in the comments section. … [Read more...]
Book Giveaway – We Need to Get Our Anger in Check.
by Ronnie Tyler It used to be that anger would motivate us to make positive changes. Oprah recently honored the Freedom Fighters, a group of men and women from different races, ages, and cultures that united together to fight for equality. It's been 50 years since the Freedom Fighters united. Fast forward to today. What exactly is our anger motivating us to do? We … [Read more...]
Stop Drinking the Kool-Aid and Live in Reality! (Part 2)
by Harriet Hairston Gary Chapman's book, "Loving Solutions" discussed four marriage myths that lead people to divorce court in the United States: Myth 1: My state of mind is determined by my environment. Myth 2: People cannot change. Myth 3: When in a bad marriage, there are only two options: live a life of misery or get a divorce. Myth 4: Some situations … [Read more...]
Stop Drinking the Kool-Aid and Live in Reality! (Part 1)
by Harriet Hairston I just finished reading "Loving Solutions," a powerful book by Gary Chapman (author of acclaimed book, "The Five Love Languages") over the weekend. It was about getting beyond what society thinks are "impossibilities" and "irreconcilable differences" in a marriage. The thing I loved about this book was his comparison of divorce to homicide and … [Read more...]
The Four “Fowls” of Unhealthy Communication
by Harriet Hairston Ask anyone who has been married a day or five decades what three keys to a successful marriage are, and I can unequivocally tell you that at least 99% of the responses will include "healthy communication" in their responses. For some, this is a nebulous term that sends chills up and down their spine. For others, it is both a science and an art to … [Read more...]
The Four Seasons of Marriage
by Harriet Hairston Anybody with just one of their five senses can tell that change is in the air, some for better, some for worse. We are embarking upon Autumn. No matter how hot it is outside, the leaves on the trees tell of a different story. As they transform from green to auburn and burnt orange, I enjoy hearing the crunch of them under my feet as I walk. The … [Read more...]
Books That Helped Me Find My “Marriage Mojo”
by Harriet Hairston In case you hadn't noticed, for the past couple of weeks, I've been giving various types of book reports about maintaining a positive attitude and helping your marriages thrive. In case you're wondering why, I'll tell you (and if you're not wondering why, humor me, OK?). I felt like I lost my "mojo" for a while. Much of what I was writing was very … [Read more...]