There's no doubt about it: any relationship worth having will take a commitment and hard work from both parties. With marriage, I've never liked to use the term "hard work" because it has a negative connotation. My greatest love lesson comes in knowing that marriage is "love work". It's "commitment work". It's "joy work". You could even say, it's homework; but after a long day, … [Read more...]
Five Types of People to Avoid Receiving Marriage Advice From
Everyone wants to be an expert in love. Ever notice how many people have an opinion on what you should do in your relationship? Certain people may mean well, but you don’t –nor should you—have to accept every piece of relationship advice offered. Couples have to be selective when it comes to sharing the challenges they experience in their relationship. Surprisingly, everyone … [Read more...]
Here Are 5 Good Reasons to Stay in Your Marriage
Some things in life are worth fighting for, while others just aren’t. The decision about whether or not you should fight for something can be an easy one, but that usually isn’t the case. Usually, making that decision is tough. There’s often a lot to consider, and it can be hard to differentiate between what seems easiest and what’s actually best. So what do you do when the … [Read more...]
Married Folks Wake Up: 6 Seemingly Harmless Things that Could Ruin Your Marriage
Trouble comes in marriage, there is no escaping it. However, some things can be prevented if you safeguard your marriage by keeping the windows and doors of your relationship closed. Do not allow anyone or anything sneak in because if you do, they will rob you of your trust towards each other, love towards one another and your overall peace of mind. How can you do … [Read more...]
When You Think You’ve Tried Everything…32 More Actions to Improve Your Marriage
I'm going to get straight to point. If you and your partner are having difficulty communicating, then you owe it to yourself and your marriage to try everything you can to improve the situation. I know it gets hard and frustrating sometimes....like you're beating your head up against a brick wall. But your marriage is worth fighting for. And when it seems like you've tried … [Read more...]
5 Simple Reasons Why Your Wife Might Be Pulling Away
You love your wife. There is no question in your mind that you made the right choice. She is the love of your life. But lately, things just haven’t been the same. She seems irritable and distant. You don’t think she’s cheating on you because nothing indicates anything that severe, plus you honestly don’t think she would ever do that. But still, you know something is … [Read more...]
5 Great Books that Every Christian Wife Should Read
By: Chandra Sparks Splond Since becoming a wife in 2012, one of my goals is to learn everything there is to know about Gregory, the man with whom I will spend the rest of my life. In short, I’m working on my PhD in Gregory. I want to become an expert in anything that has to do with my husband. I want to not only understand his likes and dislikes, but I want to gain a … [Read more...]
I Wanted a Happy Marriage… And Here Are 7 Things I Did to Get It
After 17 years I still remember shopping for my wedding dress and finally selecting the one that nearly brought tears to my eyes. My wedding day had been a dream of mine since I was a little girl. While I envisioned the details of the wedding, I had no idea what type of wife I should be. I didn't have many examples around me when I was coming up, so I had to wing it. What I … [Read more...]
4 Decisions Happy Couples Make Every Single Day…No Exceptions!
Before a man and woman walk down the aisle together and enter a marriage that lasts a lifetime, something amazing must take place. And I don't mean choosing a beautiful gown for her and a dapper tuxedo for him. I'm not even talking about their choice of groomsmen and bridesmaids to share their special day. No, long before the "I Do's" are even conceived, a man and woman … [Read more...]
The Absolute Best Marriage Advice that No One Shares, But Should
Ever notice how when you announce you’re getting married everyone immediately has love advice to give you? “Don’t go to bed to angry,” “Be a freak in the sheets,” “What you won’t do, someone else will.” All great advice, and can definitely help you to be a good spouse. However, those are more surfacy responses. Marriage is the real deal and those common words of … [Read more...]
Men: At Last, the One Simple Thing that Women Really Want
Listening to music today is totally different from years ago. Romance has been replaced with role reversal, explicit sex, and stories of unhealthy relationships. Somewhere between the promiscuity and the perceived lack of good men, relationships have gone astray. Both sexes are complaining about the other and it appears that more division, than unity is taking place. In the … [Read more...]
6 Revealing Signs You Are Expecting Too Much From Your Wife
A large part of what makes a marriage work is whether or not each person feels like his or her expectations are being met. Sure, it’s about love, honesty, respect, and all the other massively important issues—but expectations are a huge piece of the puzzle, too. So what happens when the expectations you have of each other are not in alignment? Well, it doesn’t mean that the … [Read more...]
Are You His Superwoman? 5 Things Wives Must Stop Today!
I can readily admit that my husband is not perfect. But, in all fairness, if I am willing to admit that, I have to be honest enough to admit that neither am I. Despite my best intentions, I’ve made mistakes in our marriage. We all make our share of mistakes in our marriages. Do those mistakes mean I’m a bad wife? No. They don’t because none of us is perfect. A marriage … [Read more...]
5 Rejuvenating Things Every Wife Needs To Do Without Her Husband
I have always been that girl who needs a good deal of personal space. I don’t have commitment issues and I am perfectly capable of deep love; I just don’t want anyone—not even my husband—around me all the time. Sounds harsh? I promise I am a really nice person. Sometimes I just need to be alone so I can collect my thoughts. Not much has changed over the years. I mean, … [Read more...]
Ready For Wife Life: 5 Things Your Future Husband Wished You Knew
When a man is ready for marriage, there are specific things he looks for in a woman before he decides to commit. Typically, he keeps the criteria for his ideal woman close to he vest. While this strategy works great for him, it can make dating and relationships frustrating and dealing with your man can feel confusing. But by embracing the following 5 secrets, you’ll be able … [Read more...]