Do you ever get this feeling in your gut that things just aren’t right? We all get that feeling. Sometimes it’s a result of evidence we’ve compiled, and sometimes we can’t determine the root. Either way, the feeling is there, and it’s strong: something doesn't feel right in my marriage. 5 Signs You Should Never Ignore When Something Doesn’t Feel Right in Your Marriage In this … [Read more...]
Relationships
3 Times in Dating When You Shouldn’t Trust Your Gut and What to Do Instead
You meet a guy who's great on paper and things are going well. He's handsome, has a stable job, and by all accounts, seems like someone who has the potential to be a great partner. You should be happy, but you can't ignore this nagging feeling in your gut that makes you wonder if you can trust him. Should you trust your gut or let the feeling pass? 3 Times in Dating When You … [Read more...]
What Makes a Man Husband Material?
According to Urban Dictionary, the term "wifey material" describes a woman who possesses certain qualities that would make her a model wife. I'm sure many men would describe this type of woman as a perfect mix of style, substance, sass, and love or at least respect for sports. Aside from that, men appreciate her kindness, supportiveness, and caring nature. She's the type of … [Read more...]
Single, Dating, and Waiting Till Marriage: 4 Tips to Help You Abstain
If you’re single and trying to keep the golden door closed, you may often find yourself grappling for insight on how to stay on track with that goal. My husband and I dated for over two years and were proud to have made it to the altar without dipping in each other’s cookie jars! Waiting till marriage wasn’t easy, but we believed that it was certainly possible. In this … [Read more...]
Struggles in Marriage: 5 Ways to Protect Yourself from Marriage Burnout
You may not have even known that marriage burnout exists, but it is an unfortunate reality. It is a result of relationship stress and the effect it has on couples varies. Being frustrated when things don’t go our way or having a spouse who can’t properly manage their half of the marriage all contribute. So, when it comes to struggles in marriage, what should you … [Read more...]
Relationship Burnout: Fighting for Your Relationship When There is Nothing Left
If you've heard it once, you've heard it a thousand times. Marriage is not easy. Like anything in life worth having, it takes work. But, what if you feel your work isn't being valued? Perhaps you sense your wife has lost respect for you. Or maybe your wife is constantly making decisions without communicating with you. If you feel like you're in a losing battle while fighting … [Read more...]
Embrace These 6 Traits if You Want to Be the Woman of His Dreams
If you've ever wondered what it takes to be the woman of your man's dreams, you're not alone. Whether you are married are single, becoming and remaining the woman of his dreams is not only for his good but yours. In truth, the idea of the "woman of his dreams" is not one size fits all. It's different for every man. But, regardless of what each man considers ideal, there are … [Read more...]
Perfect On Paper or Perfect Chemistry? The Three C’s of Successful Relationships
As a dating coach, I preach a lot about making sure you choose a partner based on his or her character—and not simply because you have perfect chemistry together. Chemistry is a great feeling. But are you choosing to commit to someone's mind, body and soul just because you can’t stop thinking about him? Are you excited only because she takes your breath away when she smiles? … [Read more...]
4 Stages of a Relationship Built to Last
Relationships usually start out sweet. Both the man and woman put their best face forward and look forward to the moments they get to see each other. So why is the divorce rate in America at 50 percent? Well, although a relationship starts out sweet, it must make it through four different stages in order to last. No one should take these four stages of a relationship lightly. … [Read more...]
Dating Advice: 4 Unrealistic Relationship Expectations That Are Keeping You Single
Getting dating advice is not your typical thing. But some situations require help when you're just now sure how to deal. For example, it's 10 PM and you haven't heard from him all day. He told you he'd be taking the day off from work, so you expected he'd want to spend some extra time together. After all, you both are so busy in your powerful careers and free time is hard to … [Read more...]
Dating Advice: 5 Signs He’s Stringing You Along
Recently, an old friend crossed my path. Initially, with the pleasantries and friendly interactions, it appeared as if we might work on reconciling our friendship. However, just as quickly as the pleasantries began, so did the mixed messages, the flirty conversation coupled with the evasive behavior. When I confronted him, he played coy and attempted to downplay his actions. … [Read more...]
Unhappy Marriage Signs: Why You Need More Than Love to Stay in Your Marriage
We’ve all had relationship problems. I know my husband and I have. Even that super happy couple you know has their own stuff going on. And if they tell you they don’t, it’s either all a front or a way to keep you out of their business. Unhappy marriage signs are not always readable. But having issues to manage doesn’t mean a relationship is in trouble. It just means the people … [Read more...]
Trip to the Altar: 5 Things I Wish I Knew Before I Got Engaged
A few weeks ago I spoke on a panel addressing dating, relationships, and all of the craziness that comes along with love. I thought I was prepared to address every possible question, but when someone asked me what were the things I wish I knew before I got engaged, it took me a moment to gather my thoughts. I hadn't thought about that before, but there were a plethora of things … [Read more...]
Happy Wife: 10 Ways to Make Your Woman Feel Secure in Your Relationship
As husbands, we might have a slight disconnect between making our women feel secure and making her feel secure in our marriages. Sometimes we believe that to have a happy wife, we must be willing to defend her from a guy that disrespects her or simply shield her from harm. While jumping in front of cars, rescuing her from a burning building, or getting up at night to see “what … [Read more...]
5 Simple Things a Husband Can Do to Bring His Wife Joy
We've all heard the phrase: Happy Wife, Happy Life. And while we don't subscribe to such a basic principle of marriage in our house, that doesn't mean I don't go out of my way to put a smile on wife's face just because she's my wife. Simply put, as her husband, I want to see her happy every day. 5 Simple Things a Husband Can Do to Bring His Wife Joy In this article: … [Read more...]