What makes life interesting is also what makes life so painful at times; we are never certain what’s around the corner. The cornerstone of our existence as human beings is that life is unpredictable. Things happen that we didn’t anticipate, and how we react and cope determines the quality of our lives. If you know a married couple that’s been married for a long time, they … [Read more...]
Why Do People Say Marriage Is So Hard?
I am constantly hearing people say “marriage is hard.” And although I agree with the sentiment, I think it paints a picture that marriage is all about surviving the struggle. I don’t know about you, but I didn’t get married just to survive a constant struggle. I could survive a struggle all on my own. So why do some people focus on the hard parts, neglecting to share the … [Read more...]
Single Ladies: 5 Poor Excuses to Go Back to Your Man and One Good Reason to Stay
Sometimes, good-bye is really just "see you later" (after I get over the anger you caused.) And at other times, it really is the final "farewell." Knowing when to part ways is a necessary part of the dating process in order to arrive at a healthy relationship with someone who shares the same values, qualities, and other foundational principles needed for compatibility. Here … [Read more...]
3 Ways Amazing Faith Helps You Handle Gigantic Challenges
By: Jessica Taylor-Mosley Psalms 23:4 says "Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil; for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me." We are living in a time where murders, child neglect, homelessness, depression, and even cheating have brought our hearts and minds to the darkest places. Truthfully, people do … [Read more...]
Singles: How to Know When to Draw the Line on Your Relationship
This one is for singles out there who continue to run into challenges during the dating process when it comes to deciding what is tolerable for their particular relationship. None of us are perfect, so I’m not addressing each imperfection. But, it’s imperative to strive to be the best significant other we can be as we are working toward marriage. I continue to hear others … [Read more...]
3 Ways to Support Your Spouse’s Dreams, Even If You Don’t Understand Their Vision
One of the key elements in our relationships, that we take for granted, is the ability to support each other’s dreams and goals. Being supportive of each other is often the foundation of how we build our lives together. I want to share three ways that you can can support your spouse as they execute toward their ambitious goals. 1. Encourage Them People outside of our close … [Read more...]
4 Great Ways to Deal With Unmet Expectations in Marriage
Every one of us came into marriage with certain expectations. And every one of us has dealt with the disappointment of unmet expectations in marriage. It is one of those things in marriage that will happen. When it does it can make you or break you. An opportunity to develop a better marriage This year my wife and I were asked to be a part of a group of seven … [Read more...]
Why I Hate Being a Mom (a Letter to My Child)
To My Beloved Child, When you were in my womb, my heart was filled with sheer joy. An inexplicable feeling of bringing a beautiful life into this world. What a blessing and a privilege! But, there is something that I just have to say. It didn't take long after I gave birth to you, that I realized there were certain things that I hate about being a mom. There! I said it. You … [Read more...]
What Marriage Test Have You And Your Spouse Survived?
We never know when our story can be used as inspiration for someone else who may be currently experiencing the same thing. I am blessed because every day, at my daytime job, I get to hear stories of triumph. People who have overcome many of life's toughest struggles share how they became victorious. Hearing their stories confirms that people can overcome any challenge, if they … [Read more...]