Marriage is a big step in a person's life. It shouldn't be taken lightly and we all should make sure we do our due diligence before moving forward into this great commitment. The goal going in has to be about creating a great and long lasting relationship. You need to be ready to embrace all that comes with this union and be prepared to put in the work necessary for positive … [Read more...]
I Had to Die for My Marriage In Order for It to Live
As of September 2014, my wife and I will have been married 9 wonderful years. We communicate everything, we are 100% honest at all times, we share our fears and support one another. But, in the beginning we were both selfish, manipulative, disrespectful to one another, and downright ignored how the other person felt. We were headed towards that downward spiral called divorce … [Read more...]
Should Premarital Counseling be Required Before Marriage? Proposed Law Says Yes
Recently, members of the TODAY Show discussed the possibility of The Colorado Marriage Education Act that would mandate hours of premarital wedding education for first-time and repeat brides and grooms. Headed by California-based organization, Kids Against Divorce, the act would require 10 hours of instruction for those getting married for the first time, 20 for those … [Read more...]
Single Parents: 4 Things Your Kids Are Learning from Your Relationships
As a single father, I’m always careful about who I date, who I bring around my children and deciding the right time to bring that special someone around my children. Those are important concerns to think about when raising a child. Your children deserve to see you happy and in a productive relationship. Not only is it good for you, but it’s good for the child to see what a … [Read more...]
Are People Happier With or Without Kids?
Until recently, most research has shown that those without children are more satisfied in life than those who have them. Several new studies have concluded, however, that data may not be completely accurate anymore. Princeton University and Stony Brook University published a report in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Science that found "very little difference" … [Read more...]
How Long is Too Long to be Just Dating?
Many women have asked me how long is too long to be dating or when they should expect to see their relationship take a step to the next level. Decisions like this have to be a topic of conversation in the relationship. As a man, if I’m OK with where we stand, or I don’t anticipate getting engaged, we need to have that discussion. I can’t tell you exactly how long is too … [Read more...]
8 Unforgettable Lessons on Life and Love I Learned from Nelson Mandela
Although Nelson Mandela left this world in physical form on December 5, 2013, his larger than life spirit will live on forever in his beloved country of South Africa and throughout the world. When I heard of his passing, I immediately felt this overwhelming sense of grief—and just as quickly, smiled and said "Thank You” to a man whose life’s work, struggles and accomplishments … [Read more...]
8 Reasons I KNOW I Have a Good Man
This past weekend, I spent the entire weekend with my husband, kid-free (a very rare opportunity). After we wrapped up Thanksgiving dinner at my sister's house, we said goodnight to the kiddos while they stayed for a sleepover. I was already excited because he had told me he would be off from Friday to Sunday. But then he surprised me on Thanksgiving Day by telling me he had … [Read more...]
Couples Spotlight: Christopher & Christina Billingsley (Best Anniversary Video)
You may remember this couple from the "Best Anniversary Video of 2013" that we recently shared on the site. Well, we wanted to get a chance to know the love story behind the couple. Be sure to check out their video if you haven’t already. They celebrated seven years of marriage this past September and have two kids (a girl and boy), ages six and eighteen months. This couple … [Read more...]
Will You Make a Vow to Love, Honor and Obey?
Are you making plans to get married soon? Have you decided if you are going to write your own vows or recite them from the minister or Justice of the Peace? No matter what you decide, consider incorporating these three vows: love, honor and obey. Love Love is a given, I mean why else would you marry each other right? But love is not just the fluttering you feel in your … [Read more...]
6 Tips To Keep You Motivated, While Building Your Business On the Side
Raise your hand if you want to quit your 9-5 and start your own business. Raise your hand if you are ready to quit your 9-5 and start your own business. Is your hand still up? I know that mine isn’t. While I fantasize about quitting my 9-5 nearly every day to work for myself, I know that my business is not ready; I still need the income from my full-time job to invest in … [Read more...]
8 Ways to Grow Up in Your Marriage
One of my absolute favorite quotes about marriage was one I heard in the film, Still Standing, by Ronnie & Lamar Tyler: “The only way to know if you have unconditional love, is if conditions come to test that”. This quote is undeniably powerful whether you’re married or not. And if you've been married for any length of time, then you know that tests and trials are a natural … [Read more...]
The Three C’s – 3 Simple Rules for a Happy Marriage
Have you ever felt like your marriage was one of the hardest things you've ever done? I'm sure that every married couple will agree that it takes work. But sometimes it really doesn't have to be that hard. Being kind, being supportive and being more than just there, but being "present". If you remember these three simple rules, it won't feel so much like work. Here are the … [Read more...]
Power Couple: Toni & Griff
You may know this Power Couple from Atlanta's AM1100 Toni and "Griff" show. If you’re not familiar, picture Howard Stern, the Honeymooner’s, and a sprinkle of Peg & Al Bundy all wrapped up in one. The Toni and “GRIFF” Show” has graced the internet and virtual radio world since 2010 and has gained over 70,000 fans and now a Facebook reach of over 900,000 listeners and … [Read more...]
5 Questions You Must Answer To Build Financial Intimacy in Your Marriage
Marriage is not only an emotional commitment, but it is also a financial one. When you decide to share your life with another person, you implicitly agree to share in collective expenses, liabilities, and windfalls. Whether you are recently married, recently engaged, or are a seasoned married couple, make sure that your shared financial goals will safeguard your family’s … [Read more...]