By: Radesha “Desh” Dixon Relationships are a great thing when they are right. Two people coming together and sharing a deep, loving bond that is pure, honest, genuine and nothing short of divine - that is powerful. When two people are aligned to each other’s life vision and come together to better each other’s lives, what a dynamic duo. So if you’re single and want a … [Read more...]
Are Married Men Tainting Single Men Against Marriage?
Dear Dr. Buckingham, I am a 30-year-old single woman who is tired of dealing with tired single men. I cannot seem to get a break free from meeting men who are afraid of marriage. I know that the divorce rate is high, but there has to be more to the story. I am meeting men who talk about marriage—but only in a negative manner. I am wondering if single men are lacking … [Read more...]
Should a Woman Ever Ask a Man Out On a Date?
Would you ever ask a man out on a date? Before you answer that question, I think you should read these women’s stories. “I picked my husband up 18 years ago! He was the first man I ever picked up & let's just say it worked out! Lol...one of my best moves in history to date!” ~Shauna “The evening I met my husband, we were leaving the event, we exchanged numbers, and … [Read more...]
Single Ladies: 4 Specific Expressions We Tell Ourselves When He Stops Calling and How You Really Should Respond
No one wants to find out that someone they are interested in is no longer into them. Breakups, falling out, etc. can hurt the heart. Unfortunately the emotional wounds can occur from the "getting to know you" stage all the way up to committed relationships. When a man stops calling you, you have several ways to respond. Some I’ve been through and perhaps you can relate: “I … [Read more...]
My Boyfriend is not Responsible and will Not Commit: Should I Move On?
Hi Dr. Buckingham, My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 6 years. We haven't had the best 6 years but have done counseling and worked through his cheating. When I found out I was pregnant, our whole relationship changed for the better. He was everything I ever wanted in a man. We had a daughter 5 months ago. Then 3 months ago, everything changed. We started … [Read more...]
Trip to the Altar: Never Pursue a Man, You Are the Prize
I wish I would have gotten it quicker than I did, but thank God I finally got it. These are the words my step-daddy spoke to me all the time. “A woman should NEVER pursue a man. She is the prize”. It all makes sense now. You guys pretty much know my story. I grew up in a strict Christian household. I couldn’t have boy phone calls, until after I turned 16. I could barely … [Read more...]
A Man Who Can Cook Is the New Modern Day Mr. Right! Beef & Broccoli Done Right!
Let me begin this post by dispelling the notion that a man who cooks is in some way feminine! On the CONTRARY, a man who can cook to many women is extremely attractive! With that said, let me just put something out there I've been saying for some years now; "A man who can cook is the new modern day Mr. Right!" To the single ladies — While wining and dining you is a sure way … [Read more...]
Can A Single Woman Do Too Much Before Marriage?
As a woman, who graduated college in four years (despite being a parent), purchased her first home by age 23, and who was the first person in her immediate family to go to college, I can say I'm "driven". I've been that way since I was old enough to see my mom struggle with her independence after she divorced my dad. I had a yearning to make sure that I never had to rely on … [Read more...]
Five Standards Women Should Set For Marriage
by Krystle Talley We all should have standards in place for who we want to associate with, date, and even marry one day. So, what should our standards be? Well, I can't speak for the men but I can share my humble opinions and advice with the ladies who plan to marry one day soon or in the distant future. Although I can't speak for the men, they may be able to reference … [Read more...]