Insecurities can develop in different ways. Something in the past could trigger it, or a life event such as a job lay off or having kids could implant it. It is normal to have insecurities about some things but be careful to not let them harm your marriage. Insecurities can cause you to mistrust your spouse because you feel you are not worthy of him/her. Some reasons could … [Read more...]
Every Man Needs a Cheerleader and He Wants It to Be His Woman
Next to every great man is a great woman. This is no coincidence. As humans we still validate one another. We do that by whom we choose to keep around us, whom we elevate with our words, with whom we decide to spend time, who we cut down with hate, who we invite to the party, and ultimately whom we decide to have children with. Who do we champion in our lives? We are all full … [Read more...]
5 Fun Backyard Ideas That Spice Up Date Night Right at Home!
When it comes to date night, we are all guilty of going straight for the dinner and a movie option. But, that option can quickly become monotonous and boring. Let's spice up date night without breaking the bank. These 5 super backyard dates will not only offer you the variety you seek, but will also add fun and romance to your relationship. Need a little creativity with your … [Read more...]
Does Separation Mean It’s Ok to “Get Your Groove Back” with Someone Else?
Separation in marriage can be tricky. First you must think about why you separated and how long it will last. In a previous article, Does Separation Lead to Divorce?, I shared some of the consequences of a marriage separation. Dating others is one area I think should be avoided because it can lead you places you had no intention of going. Remember, even though you are … [Read more...]
Women: Stop Treating Your Man Like Another Piece Of Bling
Ok, so we're all a little selfish. Some of us more selfish than others. And, from this narcissistic position, we tend to see the world through our own worldview. We're all guilty of this. We're not capable of removing the lenses Men get married and tend to think that their new wives are their own personal sex kittens; and, by bestowing their last names upon these hopeful … [Read more...]
3 Truths He Wants to Tell You but May Not Know How
There are truths your mate wants to share with you but doesn't know how. Some conversations are easy, while others are hard to have. When it comes to things that he doesn't know how to tell you, he may be struggling for words that will be well received. If he can't find the words, he may avoid the conversation all together. He doesn't want to upset you, doesn't want to be … [Read more...]
2nd Wives Club – The Three #1 Reasons I Appreciate Being Wife #2
My husband was married once before. And he enjoyed a five year marriage with his first wife Geneisha. However, during their 2nd year of marriage, she was diagnosed with cancer. Three years later she won her battle and transitioned to be with our heavenly Father. In the early stages of our courtship, my husband struggled with what he thought others may think of him … [Read more...]
Ready For Wife Life: 5 Things Your Future Husband Wished You Knew
When a man is ready for marriage, there are specific things he looks for in a woman before he decides to commit. Typically, he keeps the criteria for his ideal woman close to he vest. While this strategy works great for him, it can make dating and relationships frustrating and dealing with your man can feel confusing. But by embracing the following 5 secrets, you’ll be able … [Read more...]
3 Types of Men Who Are Not Going to Marry You
Ladies, ladies, ladies. Marriage is a goal for most of us because we want to share our lives with that special man of our own and raise a family together. Unfortunately not all men want to get married. To tell the truth not all women want it either. But if you want to get married and are currently in a relationship, the following three types of men are probably wasting … [Read more...]
5 Scriptures to Help Change Your Mind About Your Marriage
Have you ever had a rough time in your marriage? Have you ever caught yourself thinking bad thoughts about your marriage and wonder where those thoughts came from? I’ve caught myself in that situation before. Negative thoughts would come so easily and quickly and I would find my feelings changing due to the thoughts running through my mind. It was like a conversation going … [Read more...]
3 Ways God Can Lead You During Dating Season
Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths. Proverbs 3:5-6. There may be someone you know that is leery of marriage for fear they may end up with the wrong person. That’s a legitimate concern because no one wants to get hurt. There are many paths we will take in life and … [Read more...]
The Why, What and How of Having a Successful Marriage
Many married couples and maybe some singles want to know how to have a successful marriage. Joshua 1:8 says: This Book of the Law shall not depart from your mouth, but you shall meditate in it day and night, that you may observe to do according to all that is written in it. For then you will make your way prosperous, and then you will have good success. So how can you have a … [Read more...]
5 Things Every Husband Will Discover About His Wife if He Pays Attention
There are many things a husband should know about his wife. These five are just the tip of the iceberg. Let them lead you into a conversation of discovery about your mate as you learn her more and more. [imagebrowser id=425] … [Read more...]
Men Want Respect and Women Want Love or is it Vice Versa?
In the previous article I shared the scripture Ephesians 5:33-Neverthless let each one of you in particular love his own wife as himself and let the wife see that she respects her husband. From that I shared how even if we were unaware of it, women need love from their husbands whereas men need respect from their wives. I also shared what I and a few other women feel how our … [Read more...]
4 Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Leave After an Argument
Arguments are a part of marriage. You can’t avoid all of them and really, you shouldn’t try to. Just because you argue doesn’t mean anything is wrong in your marriage. Siblings argue, friends argue, even co-workers argue. It’s natural because you are in close contact with another person. But sometimes an argument can be so intense with your spouse, that you may consider walking … [Read more...]