Women always want to know what men really think about their wives or just women in general. We want to know all of your secrets, thoughts and feelings. So I think it’s only fair to share some of our secrets with you (men), so you know what we think and how we feel. After a great conversation with a few other wives, we agreed on the following: We look at other men, just like … [Read more...]
4 Ways You and Your Spouse Can Become THAT Couple
Do you know a couple that you smile at when you see them? That couple seems like they have known each other forever and just seems like they were made for each other. I know a few of them and feel like my husband and I have become that couple too. Here’s how you and your spouse can become that couple. [imagebrowser id=330] … [Read more...]
3 Reasons the Grass May Be Greener on the Other Side
Everyone has heard the saying about the grass is greener on the other side. Or is it? Don’t allow anyone's relationship to make you question yours. No two people or relationships are the same, so don’t try to mimic anyone else’s because you really don’t know all there is to know about their relationship. While you are thinking about someone else’s relationship, consider these … [Read more...]
[Video] Black Poetry Day: I Am His Wife
Check out this video from YouTube user Soully Gifted titled “I Am His Wife”: [youtube id="f-XrAdOL_EY"] YouTube Description: Clarification on the status and what it means for those who sometimes get confused… … [Read more...]
The One Thing I Wish I Had Done Before I Got Married
I’ve heard it said that most people prepare more for their wedding than they do for their marriage. In my case, I’d have to say it was true. Weddings are usually exciting, fun-filled events that get everyone caught up—so much so that, often, we don’t take a minute to stop and think about what happens after the honeymoon. I got married at 23. I had just finished college the … [Read more...]
5 Ways to Reap What You Sow in Your Marriage
We’ve all heard the saying that, “You reap what you sow” and most may believe that it’s true. I am one of those believers. I feel that if you want something, you should give something. To me it’s a law of reciprocity. Therefore, I believe however you want your spouse to treat you, that’s how you should treat your spouse. I’ll give you five examples. [imagebrowser … [Read more...]
10 Things You Should Know About Marriage
You may have received a lot of advice from different people regarding marriage, whether you are single, engaged or already married. I didn’t receive a lot of advice before I got married. But I have received some wise nuggets from a few family members over that last 17 years of my marriage. I will share what I was told and some things I had to learn on my own. Keep God in … [Read more...]
5 Ways to Ruin Your Marriage
There are many book and articles on how to have a great marriage. I've even written a few of them. So, now I'm going to do the opposite and share what I've learned about behaviors that can possibly ruin your marriage. Infidelity isn't the only thing that can ruin a marriage. There are several seemingly small things that can creep into your marriage and harm it. So, hopefully … [Read more...]
3 Ways You Can Have a Ride Or Die Wife
All ride or die wives want a husband that will also be there through thick and thin. Wives want a husband that will be supportive and loving. A wife doesn’t have a problem with her husband taking his place as spiritual leader in the household if she knows who his spiritual leader is. So if husbands want a ride or die wife, below are some things they need to know. 1. You … [Read more...]
10 Interesting Historical Marriage Facts, #6 May Surprise You
Do you ever wonder what marriage was like in the past? Do you know how marriage came to be or why the wedding ring is worn on the left hand? Listed below are some interesting historical facts about marriage from different cultures that may surprise you. 1. Marriage can be traced back to St. Paul who compared marriage between a man and woman to the relationship between Jesus … [Read more...]
How Can a Husband be a Leader if His Wife Makes More Money?
In the United States, it is a presumptive reality that men should be taking on leadership roles in their relationships. From a Christian perspective, “Man is the head and the woman is the help mate”, the good book says. And socially-speaking, isn't it awkward for a man not to be working, but dependent on his woman to support him (with an exception of stay-at-home dads). But … [Read more...]
Four Ways Your Marriage is a Ministry
Ministry: The act of serving, ministration. I don’t know if you realize it, but you do serve in your marriage, therefore it is a ministry. You may ask yourself how your marriage is a ministry if you and/or your spouse are not ministers. You don’t have to be. The fact that your marriage is an act of service makes it a ministry. The definition clearly states that ministry is the … [Read more...]
Marriage Ain’t No Punk
Marriage should be a lifestyle, not a casual relationship that can be terminated on a whim. Therefore it should not be entered into lightly or taken for granted. Once entered in, handle the marriage with care and remember why the decision was made to marry. This should be a careful decision because marriage ain’t no punk. Marriage is a covenant between you, God, and your … [Read more...]
A Positive Image of Marriage: Pictures From Our Readers
In celebration of Black Marriage Week we invited you, our extended BMWK family, to send us photos of you and your spouses so that we could feature them on our Facebook page. In addition to sharing your photos some of you shared a portion of your story --- how your relationship started and even imparted some wisdom for your Facebook family. Your participation was exciting and we … [Read more...]
2 Ways to Add Some Spontaneity to Your Relationship
Looking to reconnect with your spouse? As spring draws near consider the new season a chance to try out some new things when it comes to your relationship. If you are married, perhaps now is the time to bring back some of the spontaneity that was likely present back when you were simply dating, before the challenges and responsibilities of life caused you to force fun to take a … [Read more...]