It is hot. That can only mean one thing...summer is here. With summer comes barbecues, reunions, camps, and vacations on the beach. This is the time of year when families have an opportunity to bond and draw close to one another through a plethora of fun activities. But, like flipping burgers on the grill, there's another side to summer. It's one that bespeaks concern from … [Read more...]
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How I Went From a Childish Wife to a Mature Wife
Not all married women behave like a mature wife. Some of them still act childish and don't realize they are acting like one. But, these women only need some advice and enlightenment, so they would come to their senses and start behaving maturely. Here, I will tell you how I transformed from being a childish partner to a mature wife. How I Transformed to Become a Mature … [Read more...]
The #1 Attribute of a Strong, Godly Marriage
I know that the title of this article might seem a bit odd. By inference, isn't a Godly marriage supposed to be strong? I mean, is there such a thing as a weak, Godly marriage? The best way I can think to answer that question is this. So many times, we try to be "Godly" without "God." We find ways to make up our own rules but, to be safe, we make sure they have an appearance of … [Read more...]
15 Scriptures That Turn a Bad Day Good
Some days are just hard. You and your husband don't see eye to eye on breakfast. Your kids want to wear their torn, grease-stained shirt to school...again. The car won't start and when it finally does, traffic is backed up for miles and you are 3 minutes away from work. Some days are just bad. On those days, God helps me make it through with a scripture that's right on time. If … [Read more...]
9 Incredible Benefits of Praying With Your Spouse
Prayer is deeply personal. For many of us, it is a time where we lay our hearts bare before God in an attempt to draw closer to Him. As a result, it's not always a space we wish to invite others into. In marriage, however, there should be times where you and your spouse petition God together. The list of benefits of praying with your spouse is long because even though it's a … [Read more...]
7 Lessons the Bible Teaches Us About Marriage
When it comes to the concept of marriage and how to make them great, opinions run aplenty among both married and unmarried folks. In fact, many people have no idea how to make a marriage great or, if they know, are unwilling to put in the work it takes to do so. Women often seek advice from their girlfriends. Men usually run to their boys. But there are so many lessons the … [Read more...]
Strained and Broken: A Prayer for a Marriage in Ruins
The warning signs are clear. You know your marriage is strained and broken and you don't know what to do anymore. You and your spouse have not seen eye to eye for a long time. You rarely communicate and when you do the tension is swift and thick. This lends itself to misunderstandings that take root and become resentments. Like a burning inferno, the resentment sweeps through … [Read more...]
Truth Bomb: The “Spirit of Girlfriend” Isn’t The Reason Why You’re Still Single
R&B superstar Ciara ignited a Twitter firestorm when she retweeted a meme featuring a clip of Pastor John Gray's 2016 message to single women about why marriage is elusive for them. In this message, he insinuated that if a man hasn't put a ring on it yet, it's because you're walking in the "spirit of girlfriend," instead of acting like a wife. He said: “Here's what the … [Read more...]
What it Means to Embrace a Dating Relationship Done God’s Way
"I did it my way!" This is a line from a well known and well covered Frank Sinatra song "My Way." The lyrics to the song feed into this idea that a life well lived is one where I call all the shots and, regardless of regrets, it couldn't have been better because well, "I did it my way!" Sadly, many people buy into this mentality. In many aspects of life, we refuse to seek … [Read more...]
Here’s the One Thing You Must Do in 2018 to Nip Relationship Conflict in the Bud
As you can imagine, two imperfect people will definitely generate disagreement, frustration and, yes, conflict in a relationship. When you marry, you bring your flaws, a little of the past, and a moderate amount of baggage. In that baggage is the hurt others have caused, your unwillingness to forgive, and the triggers that remind you of just how hard-nosed you have to … [Read more...]
The #1 Tip for Getting the Peace You Crave in Your Marriage in 2018
Perfect marriages do not exist! Let us put this long lived myth that has been destroying so many marriages to rest. The myth that perfect marriages exist is nothing more than a lie that sets many marriages up for failure. These failures occur as a result of discord, disagreements, disharmony, worry, agitation, distress, frustration, fighting, and even hatred toward one … [Read more...]
3 Special Prayers for Joy and Peace During the Holidays
Happy Holidays! This joyous seasonal phrase will be heard in living rooms, grocery stores, and churches all throughout the country for a little more than a month. For many people, this is truly the best time of the year. But it doesn't come without trouble. For one reason or another, there are people who find spending time with family burdensome. But, while the potential for … [Read more...]
Christian Singles: 4 Scriptures to Restore Your Faith When You Have Given in to Sexual Temptation
So, you desire to be celibate, but, well, you're no longer a virgin and you think that, even though you are a Christian, the celibacy ship has sailed. You wonder if there is any hope for those who have already tossed sexual purity to the side and given in to sexual temptation. Well, there is. In Christ, there is always hope. God is a God who showers His grace and mercy on … [Read more...]
3 Prayers to Strengthen You When Your Desire for Marriage is Overwhelming
Growing up, I wasn't exactly what you would call...a planner. I mean, you hear about people who have their lives planned down to the casket. Me, not so much. And, when it came to getting married, that attitude prevailed. So, when 30 came and went, I can't say I was thrilled about being single. In fact, I started to get a bit antsy. And then, I made a spiritual decision that … [Read more...]
3 Lifeline Communication Tips for a Healthy Christian Marriage
By: Kimberly Keaton Let's all admit it. Communication can be challenging. But, the truth is, it does not have to be a lost cause in our marriages. In particular, when it comes to Christian marriages, it should be even more edifying. The lifeline of a healthy Christian marriage is successful communication the way God intended. The Bible tells us to be kind, compassionate, … [Read more...]