Do you feel like you always have to be a strong black woman? Truth be told, "Strong Black Woman Baggage" is a thing. It's a thing that makes it difficult for a black woman to let go and have more intimacy in marriage. Strong Black Woman Baggage: 7 Tips to Let Go for a More Intimate Marriage In this article: Questions to consider Balancing the life of the SBW The … [Read more...]
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What Makes a Man Husband Material?
According to Urban Dictionary, the term "wifey material" describes a woman who possesses certain qualities that would make her a model wife. I'm sure many men would describe this type of woman as a perfect mix of style, substance, sass, and love or at least respect for sports. Aside from that, men appreciate her kindness, supportiveness, and caring nature. She's the type of … [Read more...]
Embrace These 6 Traits if You Want to Be the Woman of His Dreams
If you've ever wondered what it takes to be the woman of your man's dreams, you're not alone. Whether you are married are single, becoming and remaining the woman of his dreams is not only for his good but yours. In truth, the idea of the "woman of his dreams" is not one size fits all. It's different for every man. But, regardless of what each man considers ideal, there are … [Read more...]
Perfect On Paper or Perfect Chemistry? The Three C’s of Successful Relationships
As a dating coach, I preach a lot about making sure you choose a partner based on his or her character—and not simply because you have perfect chemistry together. Chemistry is a great feeling. But are you choosing to commit to someone's mind, body and soul just because you can’t stop thinking about him? Are you excited only because she takes your breath away when she smiles? … [Read more...]
Beyond Sex: How to Make a Marriage Work Outside of the Bedroom
One of the greatest pleasures of marriage is knowing you have the opportunity to have awesome sex, almost at will. For many couples in a relationship that's headed toward marriage, the status quo is that you should be physically intimate with the person before you wed to "make sure" you are compatible. Unfortunately, many times, couples substitute hot sex for emotional love. … [Read more...]
Dating Advice: 4 Unrealistic Relationship Expectations That Are Keeping You Single
Getting dating advice is not your typical thing. But some situations require help when you're just now sure how to deal. For example, it's 10 PM and you haven't heard from him all day. He told you he'd be taking the day off from work, so you expected he'd want to spend some extra time together. After all, you both are so busy in your powerful careers and free time is hard to … [Read more...]
9 Must-Have Ingredients to a Happy Marriage
One of the strongest pieces of scripture comes to us from Paul, The Apostle, in the book of Galatians 5:22-26. In Paul’s letter to the Galatians, he shares nine attributes of Christian life, called the Fruit of the Holy Spirit. Interestingly, these attributes represent a delicious recipe for a happy marriage. Let's get cooking! 9 Must-Have Ingredients to a Happy … [Read more...]
6 Ways to Strengthen Assertive Communication in Your Marriage
It would take an entire book in itself to touch on every different communication style. If you Google different communication personality types, you’ll find a range of categories you can fall into that vary based on the system used or who came up with it. However, there are a few things that affect assertive communication in your marriage. They can also influence your … [Read more...]
What Happens When You Start Treating Your Spouse as Your Enemy
I recently came to a revelation in my own life: I've been crossing the threshold of my home expecting to get into it with my wife. And although I have no tool of measurement to gauge how often this was occurring, I can say it was happening a lot. I was fearing aka expecting aka having faith in a negative outcome. I realized that this kind of behavior is what happens when you … [Read more...]
The Keys To A Winning Marriage: Do You Have What It Takes?
The NFL just crowned their 2019 champion, The New England Patriots. Likewise, the NBA and NCAA will begin the playoffs to find their respective champions. Whatever teams win, everyone will race to try and figure out their winning formula. Why? Because everyone wants to be a winner and the proof is often in the pudding. There is a recipe for success and those who truly wish to … [Read more...]
6 Things Every Woman Should Know When Dating a Man With Children
I "met" Deesha Phillywaw through her book Co-parenting 101: Helping Your Kids Thrive in Two Households After Divorce. I wish I read her work before I became a co-parent. While dating a man with children, I didn't take into account certain things thoroughly discussed in the chapters of the book. For instance, I wasn't used to being someone's second priority and having to … [Read more...]
3 Ways to Win Every Disagreement in Your Marriage
When you have a disagreement in your marriage, you should have one goal and one goal only, to win! Yes, after the dust settles you should be able to feel like "this was a clear victory." I'm sure somebody has told you otherwise. Clearly, chalking up a "W" at the end of a disagreement with your spouse is not what your intent is supposed to be. After listening to our marriage … [Read more...]
7 Mistakes Single Christian Women Make With Relationships
There are many single Christian women out there simply frustrated with the process of dating and relationships. It can feel like there is so much unnecessary nonsense attached, and that causes some to lose hope. For those that feel this way, don't be discouraged, but be mindful of what adjustments you can make to see some improvement in that area. Here are 7 mistakes single … [Read more...]
20 Essential Elements for a Happy Marriage – Your Must-Have Checklist
I think lists are awesome. How would I get anything done without a list? I’ve tried and I can tell you that although things still get done, it’s a whole lot harder. I forget stuff. I don’t do things in a timely manner. And worst of all, I end up feeling a lot more stressed than I would have if I had just used a darn list. With that in mind, I hope this list of 20 elements for a … [Read more...]
SINGLES: 3 Signs You Should Call It Quits in a Relationship
I'm here to help you find and keep the love of your life. So why in the world would I share advice on how to know when to call it quits in a relationship? Because every second you spend with the wrong one is a second you're not with "The One." 3 Signs You Should Call It Quits in a Relationship In this article: You don't share core values or common goals. What's your … [Read more...]