At one time, whenever my husband and I disagreed my goal was to conduct those conversations in private. I was satisfied with putting on a front around others, especially our children. My concerns were always focused on their assessment of the situation. If they observed us during those moments, our girls might become nervous or even confused. Although our disagreements have … [Read more...]
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Three Easy Approaches To Conflict Resolution
by Tara Pringle Jefferson Isn't it funny how it's human nature to think our way is the only way and the best way to solve a problem? It's incredible to me that I still, after a few years of marriage, have to take a second to pivot from, "Dude, I'm telling you, I know how to fix it," to "Okay, how are WE going to solve this?" I've read tons of books about compromise, … [Read more...]
5 Lessons Learned From Reality Dating Shows
As a Certified Relationship Coach, I easily get caught up in reality TV when the focus is on love, dating, and marriage. Lessons learned from dating shows are actually helpful to those who care about love and how they show up in their relationship. You can often learn what not to do. I watch, learn and take note of how people turn into couples and how they experience dating and … [Read more...]
How To Keep Your Marriage Drama and Messy Free
One habit couples should avoid bringing into their marriage is drama. It causes chaos and confusion, keeps a couple off track, and benefits absolutely no one in the relationship. Both partners should seek to avoid this unhealthy relationship habit. In order to truly have a drama free marriage, there are a few guidelines to follow. How To Keep Your Marriage Drama and Messy … [Read more...]
How to Talk to Your Spouse About Anything
When you’re married to a partner who finds it difficult to open up and communicate with you, you have to get creative. Verbally expressing what you’re feeling, what you need, and what matters most to you, doesn’t come naturally for everyone. So, while you can’t force your spouse to open up and talk to you about anything, you can encourage them by introducing activities and a … [Read more...]
20 Things to Be Grateful for in Your Marriage
As you prepare to leave 2020 in the rearview mirror, reflection is important. Not just reflecting on the year itself, but also thinking back to what you’ve experienced and learned in your marriage and about your spouse. Also reflecting on how to be grateful in relationships. You have likely grown in some way and that is something to be grateful for. Now is a great time to … [Read more...]
Are You Unhappy in Marriage? How to Love Your Marriage When It’s Hard to Love Your Spouse
The first step to resolving any issue in a relationship is to admit that it exists in the first place. Though it might be difficult to admit you are unhappy in marriage, nothing changes if you aren’t willing to own that truth. Many couples have found themselves unhappy in marriage at some point in their relationship. And many couples have asked the question “is it time for a … [Read more...]
5 Ways to Know if You Are Immature in Your Marriage and What to Do if You Are
When Jada Pinkett Smith admitted to her past "entanglement" she used the term "emotional immaturity" and it left us all talking and wondering how to avoid emotional immaturity in marriage. When you are or have an immature spouse, your relationship requires more energy and effort from both you and your partner. Being emotionally immature can lead to stress, frustration and even … [Read more...]
2020 Successful Marriage: 20 Ingredients of a Successful Marriage in 2020
With 2020 right around the corner, I'm looking forward to ringing in the new year. It's not that this year is necessarily extra special. It's just that I believe there's a visionary advantage to the year 2020. Whether it's in work or relationships, having clarity for the new year is a good thing. For married couples desiring to take your relationship higher, 2020 can be the … [Read more...]
Young Marriage: 3 Mistakes to Watch Out for When Marrying Young
Do you know what it's like to be young and in love? Your heart skips a beat when you're together and life couldn't be sweeter. Soon enough, you are convinced you've found "the one" and you don't want to let them go. The decision to get married at a young age both excites and terrifies you. But regardless of what comes, you're willing to take the leap. With the divorce rate … [Read more...]
Generosity in Marriage: 3 Ways to Outgive Your Spouse
Generosity. It's a word that needs no introduction. Usually, it's attached to some form of financial capability. How much money do we give to charity? Do we pick up the tab when out with friends? How much money do we drop in the homeless man's bucket? However, the fact that generosity encompasses more than finance is not lost on those in love. Strong marriages are built by … [Read more...]
King and Queen: How to Treat Your Spouse Like Royalty
"She's your - Queen to be!" If you've ever seen "Coming to America," these lyrics and the way they are sung stand out in the movie. Sang out of tune and high pitched, it was the first line to the song introducing Eddie Murphy's character, Prince Akeem Joffer, to his bride to be, at least the one who had been arranged for him since birth. After her grand entrance, Akeem attempts … [Read more...]
Staying in Love When Your Spouse is Your Business Partner
Though it's hard to believe, you and your spouse have finally done it. You've stepped away from the grind of corporate America and have become true entrepreneurs. What was once a side hustle has now become a money maker and together, you're building your own little empire. As excited as you are, you're also aware of some hard truths. Managing your own business takes work...hard … [Read more...]
Toxic Relationship: 7 Signs the Bad Outweighs the Good in Your Relationship
Knowing the signs of a toxic relationship is one of the most crucial steps in saving your relationship in the long run. It will open your eyes and show you the unhealthy relationship characteristics you must not tolerate. And while there are different types of relationships, you must see to it to not turn yours into a toxic one. Sure, it's quite exhausting to even imagine … [Read more...]
5 Ways You May Be Blocking Your Marriage Blessings Without Realizing It
Marriage is a precious gift that couples sometimes take for granted. Did you know God wants your marriage to be healthy and wants you to prosper as a couple? This is difficult to do when we get in the way of our own happiness. In fact, we block our marriage blessings without even realizing it. We should be suitable helpers to our spouse and be reminded of what God says in … [Read more...]