If you’re single and trying to keep the golden door closed, you may often find yourself grappling for insight on how to stay on track with that goal. My husband and I dated for over two years and were proud to have made it to the altar without dipping in each other’s cookie jars! Waiting till marriage wasn’t easy, but we believed that it was certainly possible. In this … [Read more...]
Christian Men Reveal Their 12 Reasons Why They Don’t Date Or Marry Christian Women; Part 2
To all the Christian ladies out there, are you wondering why Christian men prefer dating a non-Christian woman? When I started talking about this topic, I was surprised by how many single Christian men spoke up. They shared their own reasons as to why they no longer date or marry Christian women, and that is what I want to share with you all today. In this article: … [Read more...]
Christian Singles: 4 Scriptures to Restore Your Faith When You Have Given in to Sexual Temptation
So, you desire to be celibate, but, well, you're no longer a virgin and you think that, even though you are a Christian, the celibacy ship has sailed. You wonder if there is any hope for those who have already tossed sexual purity to the side and given in to sexual temptation. Well, there is. In Christ, there is always hope. God is a God who showers His grace and mercy on … [Read more...]
3 Heart Strong Ways to Stay True to Your Vow of Celibacy
For a long time, celibacy was seen as a thing for nuns and priests, you know, people of the cloth. Anyone outside of these life choices was viewed as having a few screws loose if they opted to join this club. So, here you are. You've decided to become celibate. But now you’re catching flack from everybody and their mama! You hear things like: “You’re crazy.” “There … [Read more...]
6 Possible Reasons Why Christian Men No Longer Want a Church Girl
Okay, fellas, please help the ladies out. I skated around this particular question in a previous post, but I see I just need to come out and ask the question. Christian men, what do you want in a relationship? With so many pastors and leaders dating and marrying women who are not known for being “church girls”? It causes Christian women to question, what are Christian … [Read more...]
Scientists Give Us The Most Shocking Reason to Stay Celibate Before Marriage
By Lisa D. Daniels Residue - something that remains after a part is removed, disposed of, or used; remainder; rest; remnant. –Dictionary.com I was recently having a conversation with a guy friend, whom I have known for many years. And the subject of sex before marriage arose. I shared with him that I have been celibate for the past seven years and am committed to remain so … [Read more...]
I Was Tired of Being Played, so Now I’m Celibate
Is it really possible for a young woman in 2016 to date while being celibate? In this day and age, sex is at every turn in our world, staring us right in the face. Turn on any prime time TV drama, and you're bound to see a steamy love scene (roughly one per segment if you're a Scandal fan). Listen to pop radio, and you'll inevitably hear songs depicting the deed (or other … [Read more...]
Devon Franklin and Meagan Good Share the Importance of “The Wait”
Even after God told Meagan Good that DeVon Franklin was her husband, she waited nine loooong months until he asked her out to pursue a relationship. They waited until their third date to kiss. And they waited until they were married to have sex. Why They Waited Harnessing the power of delayed gratification is the theme of their new book, The Wait. It is all about: … [Read more...]
4 Critical Ways to Stay Celibate Strong When the Struggle is Real
Okay. So, let’s keep it real… You’re sitting on the couch watching a movie with your Boo. And, you begin to get that loving feeling and start locking lips. His are soft, and the tickle of his mustache adds to the sensation of the moment. His hands encircle you and make their way to your very available bottom while his tongue simultaneously and smoothly slips between your … [Read more...]
3 Keys to Trusting Yourself and Conquering Your Celibate Season
So, are you thinking about becoming celibate? Or, have you already made that decision? But now you’re catching flack from everybody and their mama! You hear things like: “You’re crazy.” “There is no way you’ll be able to do that.” “What does your man think about it?” “Just wait ’til the mood hits you, then talk.” It won’t be the first time you will be faced with … [Read more...]
Let’s Talk About Sex: Little Known Tips For Discussing Sexual Health in Your Relationship
NFL star quarterback Russell Wilson and Artist Ciara were trending in recent news regarding their controversial decision to abstain from sex in their relationship. Though sexual abstinence is rare in celebrity relationships, they have definitely inspired singles and dating couples alike about having the mature conversation about sexual expectations in your relationship. When … [Read more...]
Singles! How to Say, “I’m Celibate!” and Not Lose Your Relationship
So, you’ve made the decision to abstain from sex until marriage? Congratulations! You are dating while celibate and you’ve joined many other singles who have made this personal and spiritual choice, including Meagan Good and Tamara Mowry who both decided to become celibate while they were dating. While I celebrate your courage to make this choice, I know you may feel like it’s … [Read more...]
Celibacy Isn’t Just Something Women Do
by James A. Woodruff, A man meets a beautiful woman who is the consummate catch. She’s stimulating in a multitude of ways. Without consciously deciding, he allows her to monopolize more and more of his time and attention. The night comes where the mood is right, she’s chosen the right perfume, and he decides to make a move. “I’m celibate,” she mumbles softly with … [Read more...]
5 Reasons I’ve Been Celibate For the Last 8 Years
by Michelle G Cameron As a divorced mother of one son, it was a challenge becoming single again. I was making the decision to live a celibate life after experiencing sex for the first time during my marriage. Although it was difficult when I first started out (and it still is), here are 5 reasons why I'm on this celibate journey for eight years so far: 1. I am a … [Read more...]
Meagan Good Swears Off Sex Until Marriage
Despite her often super-sexy image (anyone see the last season of The Game?), actress Meagan Good in real life is now quite different than her occasional bad-girl personae. The Think Like a Man star recently told Life & Style magazine that she and fiancé, movie producer DeVon Franklin, won't be getting into bed until they walk down the aisle. "Our wedding … [Read more...]