I love being a follower of Christ. Since my college years, it has been my source of comfort and strength through many of life's obstacles. But, love it or not, it's not always easy. Choosing to be obedient to the Bible has its challenges and I'd be a liar if I said I was perfect at it. Thankfully, God had my back when he sent my husband to me. As a Christian himself, he's faced … [Read more...]
7 Ways to Put the “C” Back Into Your Christian Marriage
Happy New Year! It's the year 2020 and what we hope will be the start of a new and exciting decade for you and your spouse. As I write this, my husband and I are celebrating 18 years of marriage! I can't help but be grateful to God...well, especially since we met in church. That said, it got me thinking. What is a Christian marriage supposed to look like? Are we living it? If … [Read more...]
3 Reasons Why Marriages Fail Even for Christian Couples
Relationships of every kind take work. But none takes more as much work as that between a husband and a wife. It's a beast of a different breed. It requires constant nourishment, care, and reassurance. Without these, there is turmoil and a feeling of hell on earth. Christian couples tend to be, or at least appear to be, ready to address the reasons why marriages fail from the … [Read more...]
3 Reasons Why Your Christian Wife Wants to Be Single Again
Men, what would make your Christian wife want to leave you quick fast and in a hurry? That’s the question I asked my wife. With great passion, she started breaking down the reasons why. She referenced examples from our 16 years of marriage and 14 years of mentoring couples in our business, Family Bootcamp. It got serious! 3 Reasons Why Your Christian Wife Wants to Be Single … [Read more...]
3 Lifeline Communication Tips for a Healthy Christian Marriage
By: Kimberly Keaton Let's all admit it. Communication can be challenging. But, the truth is, it does not have to be a lost cause in our marriages. In particular, when it comes to Christian marriages, it should be even more edifying. The lifeline of a healthy Christian marriage is successful communication the way God intended. The Bible tells us to be kind, compassionate, … [Read more...]
5 Ways to Have a Blessed Marriage…Starting Today
Blessed. It's one of those words that people like to use, especially to convey good wishes. Someone sneezes, we say "God bless you." When asked, "How are you?" we reply with "I'm blessed." When parting ways, we say, "Have a blessed day." To be blessed is something we all desire, but blessings don't always come easy. Often times, blessings are cultivated through hard … [Read more...]
4 Encouraging Scriptures for a Troubled Marriage
Going through marital troubles can be one of the loneliest times of your life. Especially when feel like you can't turn to your family and friends. However, no matter what you are going through in your marriage, know that God is on your side. Even if you are the only one that is currently working on your marriage, don’t be discouraged. You are not alone. Below are some … [Read more...]
10 Comments That Needs to Be Eliminated from Your Marriage Right Now!
Words are powerful, and sometimes we say things we don't mean. Is it okay? No, but we're human and it happens. However, there are certain comments that should never be said in a marriage. Here are 10. "I want a divorce." Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate." (Mark 10:9) If you're married, you already know at some point your marriage will become … [Read more...]
5 Fool Proof Rules for a Healthy Argument with Your Spouse
My husband and I, along with the help of my mom, came up with 5 rules for a healthy argument with your partner. Know your partner's "conflict language". Thanks to author Gary Chapman, some of us are aware of our spouses love language. However, are you aware of how your partner effectively handles conflict? Maybe they need a moment alone to refrain from saying something … [Read more...]
The Biggest Thing I’ve Learned When Christian Men Break Your Heart
I couldn't believe it happened to me. My first heartbreak came from a man of God. He was actually the son of a preacher, with aspirations to lead his own flock one day. Out of all the silly, mediocre relationships I'd been in that amounted to nothing, I just knew I hit the jackpot when I started dating my man of God. I just knew we'd get married and live happily ever after. … [Read more...]
Everything Changed After My Husband Prayed This Prayer
No one ever told me how to be a wife. Of course I read a few books leading up to the wedding, and we attended marriage counseling, but how to actually BE a wife was never discussed. Obviously, I was encouraged to be supportive, willing to compromise, etc. But how do you BE a wife? I've been married for 5 months, and I believe the first 2 months I wondered if I was doing this … [Read more...]
4 Ways to Find Strength When Your Spouse has Checked Out of Your Marriage
What is a husband or wife left to do when their spouse decides to walk away from the marriage? Whether it is a broken husband or desperate wife with tears in their eyes, the questions are the same - What can I do? “He just doesn’t want to be married anymore”. “She just wants to move on with her life”. There really are no magic wands to be waved or magic words to be … [Read more...]