Sometimes in marriage, you may realize you are not getting what you want out of it. Sometimes you may wonder why your spouse isn't giving you what you want and or need. But there are solutions to your dilemma. Below I've listed three ways to get what you want out of your marriage. 1. Set realistic goals for your marriage. What do I mean by realistic goals? Well, don't expect … [Read more...]
10 Tips to Immediately Improve Your Sex-Life with Your Spouse. #10 Is Our Favorite.
How often do you and your spouse talk about what you like and don’t like in the bedroom? Do you feel like your sexual needs are being met or are you feeling frustrated or rejected? Sex is such a crucial part of a successful marriage, but it can be one of the last subjects on the list that you talk about. Sex in marriage is a way for you to communicate with your spouse on a … [Read more...]
5 Reasons I Think Sex is Better After 40
Many people are under the mistaken impression that the older we get, the less sex drive we have and the less sex we have. Well I am here to tell you that its simply not true. In fact, I believe the older we get the BETTER sex gets and the more we desire to have it. Just check your local listings and you will see a barrage of advertisements promoting sexual activity among … [Read more...]
25 Ways to Touch Your Spouse All Day Long
Recently I read a question from a wife who was annoyed by her husband’s groping her. Whether he was doing it with slaps on the backside or groping her body in other ways, the fondling that seemed to be a turn on for her husband was turning her all the way off. She wasn’t entirely turned off by her husband’s desire to touch her. But she was turned off by the fact that the … [Read more...]
10 Surprising Foods That Affect Your Sex Drive Part II
We are living in a society where food, diet and exercise are very important. Naturally, we are choosing what we eat very wisely. Well, what you’re eating may not only be helping you to lose weight, but it may also be helping you lose or increase your sex drive! Here are 10 surprising foods that can affect your sex drive – in a bad way! Also checkout - 10 Surprising Foods … [Read more...]
Learn to Say These 2 Words and Heal Your Marriage
Words are powerful. They can make or break a relationship. For some people, it's really difficult to tell their significant other “I love you,” or “I’m sorry,” or even “I was wrong.” But, I'm not writing about those phrases today. In my experiences of ministering to women and couples, I've found some of the hardest words for spouse's to say to each other are "I'm … [Read more...]
Marriage Can Be as Sexy in Real Life as Infidelity Appears on TV
I was a little late to the party, 3 seasons late to be exact. But I finally got caught up on all seasons of the popular TV show “Scandal”. Now that I am officially a Gladiator, I see what all the hype is about. There’s, of course, scandal, manipulation, power and sex. Sex by way of infidelity. Which on screen comes across as steamy, passionate and may make some a little envious … [Read more...]
3 Practical Ways Charm the Undies off Your Spouse
Hmmm, this may appear as though I’m suggesting a little trickery. Or, that there may be some dishonesty, but allow me to explain. The majority of us desire a partner who is excited about the idea of us; one who can’t wait to be intimate with us. Intimacy and lovemaking should never feel like a chore, but should be a moment that happens naturally and frequently in our … [Read more...]
Are Your Kids Ruining Your Sex Life? 3 Ways to Stop It
Ahhh the joy of parenthood. I so enjoy being a mom. Providing love, direction and guidance to my daughters has been my greatest blessing and responsibility. Being a parent is a full-time job and just like with any other full-time job, there are certain stressors that come along with it. One is, it is never ending. Children always need their parents. Next is the sacrifices that … [Read more...]
Why I Wish My Husband Had Married Someone Else
This may sound strange, but I kinda wish my husband had married someone else - someone a little different…someone a little less green and naïve about how this whole thing called marriage was really supposed to work. I wish his wife was better equipped to handle the truth about what marriage really means. Why? Because then, she would know to expect rocky roads, good night and … [Read more...]
5 Techniques Husbands Should NOT Use To Get “Some”
Being a husband can be rough. They have to provide and protect for their family. Make sure they're tending to their wife's needs. Help out with the kids if they have any. As well as deal with everything life throws at them. They put in some work and all many want in return is love, loyalty, support, good food, and a little booty. Ok maybe not just a little.. but a lot of booty. … [Read more...]
The ABC’s of a Passionate Marriage
Sometimes marriage can get stale as the daily routines set in. It’s easy to slump into a comfortable existence but why not revive your relationship from dull and dismal into powerful and passionate. Try these tips to pump life into your marriage. A.... Always find new ways to show your spouse how much you care about them by occasionally leaving sexy notes, kissing for at … [Read more...]
Marriage and Sex: Here Are 3 Big Time No-Nos
Sex is a vital part of marriage. Sometimes sex can become something other than the act of expressing love to your spouse. As we fall into our routine with each other and situations evolve in our lives, the sex can change. There is nothing wrong with change, just as long as the change doesn't lead to problems in the marriage. Listed are some things sex shouldn’t be. 1. Sex … [Read more...]
3 Statements Every Spouse Needs to Hear
For our seventh wedding anniversary, my husband planned a lovely evening for us to celebrate our special day. We went to dinner and then he surprised me with tickets to see Patti LaBelle in concert. We were probably the youngest people there, but who doesn’t love them some Patti?! The show was excellent. Patti belted through the plethora of hits that have marked her stellar … [Read more...]
25 Types of Kisses Every Marriage Needs
Kisses are very important in a marriage. If you're kissing, you're not fighting. There are many things you can do to keep the fire going in your marriage but let's focus on the kiss. Here are 25 types of kisses that every marriage needs. What types of kisses can you add to this list? [imagebrowser id=157] … [Read more...]