Previously we discussed the reasons wives need to initiate more sex in their marriages, but there is always two sides to the story. We have to understand and embrace what both sides need more of in a marriage. So with that said, it's time to talk about what husbands could initiate more of, and that is non-sexual intimacy. This may be the first time you have heard the term … [Read more...]
3 Reasons Why Wives Should Get it Started in the Bedroom More Often
Out in the world, there are so many married men walking around in frustration. They feel hurt, rejected, and flat out annoyed by the situation they have been faced with. They don't know what else to do, and the same question just keeps repeating in their mind, "why oh why won't this woman give me some more booty?" Yeah that is pretty much the honest truth about what many … [Read more...]
10 Tips on Having a Successful “Quickie”
We've all been through it... Kids everywhere, dishes in the sink, somebody needs a ride, fresh clothes in the basket to be folded, the car needs an oil change AND the phone is ringing. BUT you look over at your spouse over there looking fine as ever. Maybe its the way the sun is hitting her hair, or the way he stepped in the door in his work boots. Anything could trigger it! … [Read more...]
Having Bad Breath and Three Other Romance Killers You’re Probably Guilty of Doing
Marriage is all about loving your spouse just the way they are, right? Right. That is until the honeymoon stage wears off (and it will) and some of the quirks about your spouse you used to let slide, aren’t so cute anymore. As you both become increasingly comfortable with each other, those quirks can become annoyances that evolve into potential romance killers. Below, are … [Read more...]
You Love Your Spouse, But Do You Still Like Your Spouse?
One day, my wife Tanya asked me "do you still love me?" And I replied, "of course I love you. You're my wife, the mother of my daughter, we've been married 12+ years...yes, of course I love you. Now the question you need to be asking me is "do I like you?" It's funny how relationships come 360 degrees huh? Wasn't it back in kindergarten and first grade when you were asking … [Read more...]
5 Reasons His Wife Isn’t Getting Any
This article is the "other side" to the article - 5 REASONS HIS WIFE ISN'T GETTING ANY. Men will always want sex. A husband would never consistently reject his wife’s sexual desires. Women are the only ones that lose sexual interest after marriage…That's what you think! As much as society talks about the “poor husband” crying out for some sexual healing, there are wives … [Read more...]
Is Making Love a Form of Celebration in Your Marriage?
Making love is a celebration for you and your spouse. Let me let that sink in a minute...leans back and looks up...places hand on chin... Yes, making love in marriage is the result of you and your spouse connecting, then celebrating your connection. So, if making love isn't feeling like much of a celebration to you or your wife, then maybe you are missing a connection or … [Read more...]
From Head to Toe: The 5 Body Parts I Love on My Husband the Most
[tps_header]Is there more than one main body part a woman is supposed to love on her husband? Really, what's more important than "that one"? Plenty. When you are in a truly intimate and loving marriage, you recognize that there is so much more to physical intimacy than sex. Each touch, each caress, each body part is an opportunity to have a spiritual and emotional … [Read more...]
5 Ways to Make Her Happy to Come Home
Life for a woman can be rough. There is so much negativity in the world and we need to create more sources of positivity to offset that. One place a woman hopes to get some of the good stuff is in her relationship and in her home. She desires for it to be a place to escape from the nonsense and receive the peace and love she needs. As men and husbands there are some things we … [Read more...]
BMWK is about to Take Bedtime to the Next Level Thanks to Serta
Lamar and I have been invited to participate in the Serta 2013 Ambassador Blogger Program where Serta hand-picked several bloggers and sites that they wanted to have partnerships with this year. During the program, we will have the opportunity to learn first hand why Serta is America's #1 Mattress Manufacturer, we will also be educated on how you can improve your health and … [Read more...]
Should We Thank God for Sexual Intimacy In Our Marriage?
I pray daily. My prayers typically include gratefulness for my life, family, gifts and my career. I ask for forgiveness of my sins and for God to cover my children, husband, my other loved ones and those less fortunate. I couldn't imagine my life without my daily prayers. I feel like if I don't, those areas might suffer. I know I am not alone in wanting the absolute best for … [Read more...]
#StayWinning: 4 Ways Men Can “Win” In Their Marriages and Relationships
Sometimes as men we are willing to compete to score points in everything but our relationships. Well I think it’s about time we start scoring again! It's one thing to be in relationships by way of title, but sometimes your woman is miserable in the relationship and she is just too scared to tell you because she knows how sensitive you are. With that said let’s, talk about how … [Read more...]
Elevate Your Marriage: 7 Practices of Highly Intimate Couples
Can a marriage survive without sex? Late last year, a friendly but intense argument around that question overtook what had been a pretty normal dinner discussion with six friends and turned it into a passionate, at times heated, all night debate. But as I and my friends, most of which were married, sat around the table batting our passionate feelings around, I zoned out and … [Read more...]
5 Reasons Her Husband Isn’t Getting Any
This article is the “other side” to the article - 5 REASONS HIS WIFE ISN'T GETTING ANY. What the hell is her problem? This man is her husband yet she comes up with excuse after excuse as to why “tonight isn’t a good time.” In the past sex, was not an issue and she may have even uttered the words “my husband will never have to worry about sex.” Fast forward to the present … [Read more...]
5 Signs that You Are Sabotaging Your Own Relationship…and You Don’t Even Know It
What comes to mind when you hear the word "intimacy"? Do you think of marriage, sex, friendship, affection, familiarity, or something else altogether? Regardless of what words you associate with intimacy, close relationships require it to truly be authentic. Unfortunately, we often block intimacy with our own actions, words, and thoughts. It is easy to see how verbal or … [Read more...]