You can’t get close to her inside of the bedroom because you aren’t close to her outside of it! Uh oh, did I just say that? Why yes I did! Fellas, I know some of you are out there right now wondering why your woman always seems to be running away from you, when you are trying to be intimate or have sex with her. You go left, she goes right; you try to touch her, she turns … [Read more...]
Why Your Mate Thinks You Are FAKE Happy! (Who’s Been Guilty of #3?)
WHO ARE YOU TRYING TO CONVINCE!? I ask this question because I am tired of seeing the facades. I am tired of seeing couples being PUBLIC happy but PRIVATE miserable. Sometimes I think to myself that if we just put as much effort into the perception we try to build about our relationships, as we put into the reality of our relationships then we would be so much happier. Ok … [Read more...]
“Mind Your Business!” 5 Topics that May Change How You Think of Privacy in a Marriage
Is there such a thing as privacy in a marriage? I mean we hear people say things all the time like “when two become one” or “what’s yours is mine and what’s mine is yours,” but it seems like when you put that into practice sometimes it can cause a lot of chaos in a relationship or marriage. While I understand everyone wants to keep some form of independence sometimes that … [Read more...]
4 Times You BETTER Not Compare Your Wife to Your Mother!
"Baby how come your fried chicken doesn’t get as crispy and juicy like my mother's does?" I figured out when I was young to NEVER compare your WOMAN to your MOTHER. I was in my young twenties with no real frame of reference, but I got a lesson that day because my then girlfriend hit me with the “well if you don’t like it then why don’t you go get your mama to cook it … [Read more...]
7 Big Things Your Wife Wants You to Know About Her
Okay so I recently wrote a piece for the ladies letting them know that there were 6 BIG Things Men Want Them To Know About. Well one of the reasons I do what I do is because I want men and women to attempt to understand each other more, so that we can have more harmonious relationships. With that said I figured it was only right that I let the men know a few things that the … [Read more...]
WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM ME!? 3 Times Men Want to Shout This From the Rooftop
What Do You Want From Me Woman!? So… I decided I'm gonna throw some things on the grill on a Friday night. She says “You know I like my hot dog burnt.” I say, "Okay” and proceed to burn her hot dog for her. She eats a few bites and throws it away, then says, "I didn't like that hot dog; you made it TOO burnt!" This just in...... "WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM ME!?!?!?" I think … [Read more...]
Always a Groomsmen Never A Groom
The old cliche "always a bridesmaid never a bride" is usually said with the intention of making a woman feel bad for not having a husband yet. It's usually followed by some attempt to give a woman advice on how to "get a man" yet, it falls on deaf ears because she already tired of hearing it. Well, since she is tired of hearing it, I've decided to take a second and flip the … [Read more...]
6 BIG Things Your Man Wants You to Know About Him
Soooo many times, women say they want to know what men really think. They say they want the "male perspective," but I'm often amazed at how when they get that perspective, they proceed to tell men why their perspective is wrong. NEWS FLASH, just because our perspective is different than yours, doesn't make our perspective WRONG! Let me clear the air with these 6 BIG things men … [Read more...]
5 Things Women MUST Know That Men Don’t Care About!
"I don't care!" That's what we really want to say when you ask 1000 questions about something that we really don't have an opinion about. You get mad because we act like we don't have anything to say, but the truth is that we REALLY just didn't have anything to say. Ok, so to avoid anymore disagreements ladies, these are just a few things that men really don't care very much … [Read more...]
4 Reasons Men Need to Stop Dogging Their Wives!
Fellas stop dogging your wives! Ok ok ok before all of the men get in an uproar let me explain! So I was in the sauna at the gym the other day and a man (who I didn't know) came in, then proceeds to go on a big negative rant about his wife and her nagging, complaining and everything else. While I empathize because we must admit that there are some wives who are just unhappy … [Read more...]
“Give Us Grandkids or Else!” The Pressure Couples Feel to Conceive
She brushed it off a few times but I knew after about the tenth time she was asked, it had to be affecting her emotionally. Being the gracious host that she is, she smiled her way through it and instead of saying, “Back off” or “Leave me alone” she would instead ask "Do you need anything? Would you like something else to drink?". She probably wanted to cry and needed a hug … [Read more...]
3 Ways that Men can “Show Up!” in Their Marriages and Relationships
“Fellas don’t just show up…she needs you to be PRESENT!” This was a meme that I recently created and posted on my social media outlets because I know it’s an area that some men struggle in sometimes, including me! The longer I’m in a relationship, the more I learn about and understand the needs of women. What I’ve found is that although people may have different “love … [Read more...]
3 Behaviors Men and Women May Need to Ditch Once They Get Hitched
The debate is on! After last week’s photos of a certain TV Reality Star posed nude in an attempt to break the internet - the internet was on fire. Mothers and wives everywhere were debating if it was respectful, classy, or acceptable for a woman who is a wife and mother to be posing in the nude. Well although that debate continues, it got me to thinking about how once you … [Read more...]
4 People Who Might Not Be Happy You Are in a New Relationship
NEWS FLASH: Everybody doesn’t want to see your relationship succeed. Yeah I know that you think everybody should be happy for your happiness, but just know that everyone isn’t. Now usually that has more to do with them than with you, but nevertheless it’s true. Many times we kill ourselves trying to make everyone like us and wondering why people aren’t happy for us. We wonder … [Read more...]
Why Men and Women Frustrate The Hell Out of Each Other!
So, the other day the garbage disposal in the house broke. After getting the number for the repair person, I sent it to my wife for her to give the guy a call and schedule the repair. Now mind you, normally when we need a repair or anything related to taking care of stuff with the house, my wife usually handles it. I make sure she has the money to get it done. Well, this time … [Read more...]