Two weeks ago, the ladies were clapping their hands, supporting the advice I gave in this article about telling the fellas how to STEP THEIR GAME UP. Well , you know it wouldn’t be me if I didn’t come back and give some tips to the ladies to help them pep up their romance game as well. Ladies, just like us men, you sometimes get way too comfortable as well. Sometimes, you … [Read more...]
Intimacy
7 Ways to Spice Up Your Marriage: Don’t Settle for Sexless in Your Sanctuary
So, Valentine’s Day is over. But does that mean you just hang up the romance until the next special occasion? Remember the time (in my Michael Jackson voice) when you two first got married and you simply couldn’t keep your hands off each other...and there was no special occasion necessary? There was this insatiable magnetism when you two were together. But then you allowed life … [Read more...]
Couples: 4 Super Creative Ways to Make Your Sex Life Sizzle
Successful relationships, like all great accomplishments, require commitment and action. In order for couples to keep love and romance exciting in their relationships they must first establish an environment of love, trust, and respect. If each mate consistently expresses and displays these three things to each other a safe, secure, supportive atmosphere is created. The … [Read more...]
3 Ways and Reasons to Strengthen Your Vagina
I can’t believe I’m writing about this. Let me just be frank and honest. I never thought I would be writing about a woman’s hoo-ha. But..... I was searching the internet for my mother. What I needed for her DID NOT pop up. What popped up, instead, was all this information on vaginal exercises and reasons to strengthen your vaginal muscles. A Russian woman even holds the … [Read more...]
5 Things Women Crave in the Bedroom and Your Wife Wants Them All
Related: These 4 Things Are a Beast in the Bedroom and Your Husband Wants Them All For married couples, sex is beautiful and pleasing to God. Also, the marriage bed is undefiled (Hebrews 13:4). However, the marriage bed can be boring and uncreative. This is especially true if you add work, bills, children, and anything else that fights for your attention to the mix. The … [Read more...]
4 Things that Can Turn Bad Sex with Your Spouse into Great Sex with Your Lover
This past weekend the new show, It's Not You It's Men, premiered on the OWN network. I absolutely love discussions surrounding love and relationships. So you can imagine my excitement. Having a whole 1 hour show on that very topic, hosted by Tyrese and Rev Run, had me psyched. As with most new shows, Twitter was abuzz about the conversation and one topic in particular. On … [Read more...]
The One Surprising Thing You Just Might Be Forgetting to Give Your Spouse Every Day
Life is busy! In fact, I just had to be reminded to get some rest and remove my feelings of guilt and shame when I sit and do absolutely nothing. It feels as though people are always on the go. There are a million things to do and not nearly enough hours in the day to actually accomplish any of them. With church, jobs, children, school, extracurriculars, family and a … [Read more...]
Are Wives Always Expected to Say Yes to Sex?
I love conversations about love and marriage. When people open up about their relationships and true heart to heart conversations take place, I’m usually all ears, ready to offer support, share my own experience, or just listen. This past week, in particular, was especially powerful because it was my first time participating in a prayer call with the Anointed Wives Ministry. … [Read more...]
Wives: 5 Curiously Weird but Sexy Things that Turn Your Husband On
R. Kelly may have given us "12 Play", to give couples 12 guaranteed ways to get in the mood, but we already knew about those typical actions. Well, YOU guys already knew. I was only 9-years-old when "12 Play" was released (1993). Newsflash ladies: our imperfections apparently make us perfect. I'll spare you a pedophile joke about R. Kelly, even though "Age Ain't Nothing But A … [Read more...]
Men: 6 Things About Sex, Marriage, and Dating You Would Know If You Thought Like Women
When it comes to relationships, some men often wonder what their wives or girlfriends think about, what they want, what they like, how they can please them, etc. etc. So, after hearing all that and listening to them complain that women are complicated and hard to understand, I began to wonder what men would know if they acted like men but thought like women. So I, along with … [Read more...]
6 Sexy Cold Weather Dates to Bring the Heat to Your Marriage
The weather outside is frightful, I know, I know. Although we’ve mostly only had a taste of snow in most parts of the country, we all know there is much more to come. And, when it does, it’ll force us indoors and limit our plans and activities, or so we thought. Date nights can’t stop because it’s a little cold and dreary outdoors. We may have to get a little creative, but … [Read more...]
19 Husbands Dish on “What Did You Think the First Time You Had Sex with Your Wife?”
Husbands and wives get intimate with BMWK and share some of the most intimate details and private thoughts about their relationship in our He said, She said lasting love series. So what happened the first time our couples did the nasty. Our husbands and wives tell all about the first time "it" went down and what they thought about it. They answer the question "What did you … [Read more...]
No Knocking the Boots for Me: How Do I Survive in a Sexless Marriage?
Dear Dr. Buckingham, I need your valuable professional advice for the situation I am in. I got married five years back and after a year I got divorced. One of the reasons for the divorce was there was no sex in our relationship. He ejaculated even before insertion. Our marriage didn't work out. After 3 years, I got remarried. It's been just 5 months. My husband is a … [Read more...]
3 Places On My Wife I Commit to Kiss Every Single Day and Why
The first kiss recorded in the Bible is found in Genesis 27:26-27. When Jacob kissed his son Isaac. This kiss was a sign of respect, honor, and a passing of blessing. A kiss at its core is a sign of love and respect between two people. A kiss at its core is a sign of love and respect between two people. An now, in our culture, it has also become: a way to connect non-verbally … [Read more...]
19 Wives Answer ‘What is the Craziest Place You’ve Ever Had Sex with Your Husband?’
Husbands and wives get intimate with BMWK and share some of the most intimate details and private thoughts about their relationship in our He said, She said lasting love series. So it's time for the juice. Our husbands and wives hold nothing back when dishing on what makes the love jones come down in their house, or park, or wherever they happen to be when the mood strikes. … [Read more...]