Recently, an old friend crossed my path. Initially, with the pleasantries and friendly interactions, it appeared as if we might work on reconciling our friendship. However, just as quickly as the pleasantries began, so did the mixed messages, the flirty conversation coupled with the evasive behavior. When I confronted him, he played coy and attempted to downplay his actions. … [Read more...]
3 Reasons Why You’re Still Waiting for Boaz
There are many women of faith that have gone in prayer and asked: "God where is my Boaz?" There are many churches that have preached to single women to continue waiting for Boaz. Yet despite all of your efforts, Boaz has not come, and frustration has taken his place. This can seem so unfair, but maybe there is a very good reason this blessing has been delayed. What could … [Read more...]
7 Mistakes Single Christian Men Make With Relationships
Where are all the good women? This is a common question many single Christian men ask. Many are frustrated with being overlooked or the fact that they feel it has been too hard to find a "quality woman of God." They hear a lot of women claiming greatness, but it isn't lining up with what they experience. Are Christian women the problem, or are these single Christian men … [Read more...]
7 Mistakes Single Christian Women Make With Relationships
There are many single Christian women out there simply frustrated with the process of dating and relationships. It can feel like there is so much unnecessary nonsense attached, and that causes some to lose hope. For those that feel this way, don't be discouraged, but be mindful of what adjustments you can make to see some improvement in that area. Here are 7 mistakes single … [Read more...]
Sisters: Consider These 3 Important Things Before Giving Up the Goods
By: Radesha “Desh” Dixon Sex is a natural part of human life. We don’t have to deny it and we shouldn’t feel ashamed to talk about it. As women, we’ve been so conditioned to think a certain way and act a certain way to be labeled as a ‘lady’ or a ‘good woman’ to ensure that we fit into society’s ideals of us. And while I do believe that there are different classes of … [Read more...]
Ladies: 3 Signs You Want a Relationship for All the Wrong Reasons
By: Radesha “Desh” Dixon Relationships are a great thing when they are right. Two people coming together and sharing a deep, loving bond that is pure, honest, genuine and nothing short of divine - that is powerful. When two people are aligned to each other’s life vision and come together to better each other’s lives, what a dynamic duo. So if you’re single and want a … [Read more...]
Best Dating Advice? These 12 Made Our List!
Well, it's the last month of 2017. For many singles, the year has been nothing but a roller coaster ride of crazy! Whether you've been hooked up through a mutual friend, swiped your way through Tinder, or took a chance on a co-worker, you have yet to meet your soulmate. If you find yourself at a loss when it comes to the dating scene, help is on the way. Recently, we posed a … [Read more...]
Blinded by Love? Ladies, Pay Attention to These 5 Signals Before Tying the Knot
Have you ever had one of your girlfriends come and tell you something about your man that you just refused to believe? He made a pass at them. He shoved somebody in the parking lot. He quit his job, again. Even though you saw him holding his "cousin's" hand last week, and he barely missed your fingers when he slammed the door shut yesterday, and he just called to ask you to … [Read more...]
3 Ways to Be Happily Single On Purpose
Too many people see being single as a “disease” that needs to be cured rather than a season of life or possibly even a calling for life. Some come right out and say it: “Girl, why are you still single? Can’t you find a man?” Or, “if you weren’t so picky, you would be able to catch a guy.” Others are much more subtle. They don’t speak so much of your singleness, but are … [Read more...]
3 Prayers to Strengthen You When Your Desire for Marriage is Overwhelming
Growing up, I wasn't exactly what you would call...a planner. I mean, you hear about people who have their lives planned down to the casket. Me, not so much. And, when it came to getting married, that attitude prevailed. So, when 30 came and went, I can't say I was thrilled about being single. In fact, I started to get a bit antsy. And then, I made a spiritual decision that … [Read more...]
Relationship Limbo: Should I Be Patient or Move On If My Man Won’t Commit?
Dear Dr. Buckingham, Thank you in advance for considering my advice question! I'm a 34-year-old woman dating a 35-year-old man. We've been together for 2 years and I'm twiddling my thumbs waiting for 1 of 2 things to occur...either he pops the question and/or we finally move in together. We've spoken about marriage, looked at rings, he's asked my dad for my hand (a year … [Read more...]
Single Ladies: 3 Very Important Lessons You Should Learn Before Becoming a Wife
You don’t know what you really want until you experience it firsthand. But when you want to be married, how in the world do you prepare for it without compromising your standards? I recently learned a few valuable lessons (in a crash course) about what it’s like to be a wife—sometimes. No - marriage is not all about date nights, someone to cuddle with every night, or rubbing … [Read more...]
3 Ways to Spread a Little Love for Your Single Friends This Holiday
It was Christmas of 2006, and my boyfriend had dumped me a few months prior. So that holiday, there would be no small boxes with bows, no ringing in the New Year with expectancy for what might happen and no "plus one" for the office Christmas party. All around me, people were celebrating. Friends were getting engaged, buying gifts for their boos and celebrating peace, love … [Read more...]
5 Advantages and Disadvantages of Marrying Before You Turn 30
According to the Census Bureau, most Americans are marrying before they hit the 30 year mark. My husband and I got married when I was 24 and he was 27. Now, some 19 years later, I feel like we got married at a good age. We have both changed since then as individuals and as a couple. Well, I’ll say we have evolved as a couple. We have had time to really learn about ourselves … [Read more...]
Ladies, You Say He’s Your Dream Guy, but Can You Accept Him for Who He Is?
Men and women alike have their metaphorical mate in mind. And when on the prowl, this fantasy mate is the standard that potential prospects are measured by. But have you ever thought about the cost of dating your “type”? Don’t misunderstand me, every relationship comes with a price. We all have to give and take. However, some relationships cost more than others. Here are … [Read more...]