I’ve written many articles on how to handle trouble in your marriage, how to survive being married, and what the Bible says about marriage - so now I just want to use this article to brag on my husband. Many times we don’t take the time to just be thankful for our spouses or tell them how much we appreciate them. So I will share 6 reasons why my husband is the bestest (yes, … [Read more...]
3 No-Nonsense Reasons You Shouldn’t Compare Your Spouse to Your Parent
Have you heard the saying that boys tend to marry someone like their moms and girls look for men like their father’s? In a way it’s true, we may subconsciously look for someone who shares some of the same qualities as our parents. You may have married someone who has qualities like your parent, but if they do not, please don’t compare them to your parent. It is dangerous to … [Read more...]
15 Ways To Quickly Find Out If You or Your Spouse Are ‘About That Married Life’
I am one of those people who loves the feeling of being in love. I love the idea of it, the feeling of it, the heat of it. And I am blessed to be married to a man who makes me feel it often. I'm not gonna lie, it's not an every day feeling. But, it wouldn't be married life if it were. See, that's the thing. Married life is all at once amazing, full, frustrating, and … [Read more...]
Study Your Spouse and Do These 3 Things to Prevent Flunking Out of Your Marriage
By: Ashleigh Hargrave “Let me tell you about my man. He works at ACME cleaners, drives a 2015 car, loves to play golf and went to state university.” “Bro, my girl is fire. She works at the bank, has her own house, bakes wedding cakes on the side and can play a mean game of spades.” During courtship, couples are seriously into one another. They learn and spend as much … [Read more...]
So Your Spouse Doesn’t Go to Church? Here Are 4 Godly Ways to Practice Your True Religion
1 Peter 3:1-2- Wives, likewise, be submissive to your own husbands, that even if some do not obey the word, they, without a word, may be won by the conduct of their wives, when they observe your virtuous conduct accompanied by fear. Do you have a spouse that doesn’t go to church or isn’t in the word of God? Is it frustrating? Do you constantly ask him/her to go to … [Read more...]
9 Reasons to Stop Listening to Your Friends Regarding Your Marriage
Ladies, stop listening to your friends! It’s tempting to want to talk to your girlfriends when you are having marital problems. But be careful. Your friends don’t always have your best interests at heart. Below are 9 reasons to stop listen to your friends regarding your marriage. They don’t know the whole story, just your version. They can only give you an opinion based … [Read more...]
The 3 Harmful Insecurities That May Be Killing Your Marriage
Insecurities can develop in different ways. Something in the past could trigger it, or a life event such as a job lay off or having kids could implant it. It is normal to have insecurities about some things but be careful to not let them harm your marriage. Insecurities can cause you to mistrust your spouse because you feel you are not worthy of him/her. Some reasons could … [Read more...]
Does Separation Mean It’s Ok to “Get Your Groove Back” with Someone Else?
Separation in marriage can be tricky. First you must think about why you separated and how long it will last. In a previous article, Does Separation Lead to Divorce?, I shared some of the consequences of a marriage separation. Dating others is one area I think should be avoided because it can lead you places you had no intention of going. Remember, even though you are … [Read more...]
What You Need While Waiting for Your Spouse
If you are waiting for the right person to come along to spend the rest of your life with, I want to encourage you to be patient. It’s tempting to look at friends and family who are engaged or already married and question God about where your spouse is. Don’t let negative thoughts discourage you while you wait. Don’t let others tell you that marriage may not be for … [Read more...]
5 Scriptures to Help Change Your Mind About Your Marriage
Have you ever had a rough time in your marriage? Have you ever caught yourself thinking bad thoughts about your marriage and wonder where those thoughts came from? I’ve caught myself in that situation before. Negative thoughts would come so easily and quickly and I would find my feelings changing due to the thoughts running through my mind. It was like a conversation going … [Read more...]
6 Simple, Fun and Sexy Summer Dates that will Keep the Spark in Your Marriage
Summertime is a special time. Some are already complaining about the heat, but I'll take this any day over the white stuff. And now that we've got the kids all squared away with their summer activities, it's time to schedule some fun in the sun with your spouse! I love creating new memories and finding new things to do with my hubby. So I scoured the interwebs for some ideas to … [Read more...]
3 Ways God Can Lead You During Dating Season
Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths. Proverbs 3:5-6. There may be someone you know that is leery of marriage for fear they may end up with the wrong person. That’s a legitimate concern because no one wants to get hurt. There are many paths we will take in life and … [Read more...]
5 Fool Proof Rules for a Healthy Argument with Your Spouse
My husband and I, along with the help of my mom, came up with 5 rules for a healthy argument with your partner. Know your partner's "conflict language". Thanks to author Gary Chapman, some of us are aware of our spouses love language. However, are you aware of how your partner effectively handles conflict? Maybe they need a moment alone to refrain from saying something … [Read more...]
The Why, What and How of Having a Successful Marriage
Many married couples and maybe some singles want to know how to have a successful marriage. Joshua 1:8 says: This Book of the Law shall not depart from your mouth, but you shall meditate in it day and night, that you may observe to do according to all that is written in it. For then you will make your way prosperous, and then you will have good success. So how can you have a … [Read more...]
FREE Couples Webinar: My Spouse Hurt Me, How to Let Go of the Pain and Move Forward with Your Marriage on Tuesday, February 17th
Life lessons teach us that eventually we must forgive and forget if we want peace. Life also teaches us that doing that is easier said than done, especially if it's a spouse. When we get married, we probably find it hard to believe that the person we vowed to spend the rest of our lives with, could cause us so much pain. But, it happens. The thing is, we still love our … [Read more...]